Thoughts are material. Quotes
If you have a family that loves you, a few good friends, food on the table and a roof over your head, then you are richer than you think.
And if the winter is long, don't forget, the window to summer is always there, it's in your own soul.
Al Quotion
Don't try to find someone to blame.
There are no “guilty of fate”.
Someone just got something
And here is what you got.
To the question "Why?" no answer.
Just know that you have enough strength for that.
God always gives us the cross according to our strength.
Try to bring it...
Lyubov Petova
Probably the illusion of unity with the world. It seems that the whole world is at our feet, you can do with it what you like, manage it. It is forgotten that it is necessary to ask the permission of space for any action. See not only what you want, and do what you want. And to feel how others around us react to our actions. What do we carry in ourselves: Light or devastation.
Different facets-opposites of one phenomenon can be seen, but puzzles are not assembled into a single image, into a picture. Extremes turn in our vision of the situation into a grotesque, a caricature. Black humor is born. There are those who want to put on a jester costume and escape from reality in such a strange way. Hide the feeling of hopelessness behind a fake smile.
Sometimes someone may wish to escape from problems to another world, whether it be computer games or workaholism to the point of loss of sensitivity.
(+) Someone who is ready for this may have a vision. Events will be predictable. But new opportunities should be treated with caution. It’s not worth it to arrange demonstration performances out of your abilities; you can disgrace yourself on boasting. It is given to solve more important tasks.
From the great to the ridiculous one step.
It is punishable to laugh and disdain the Faith and the striving for the Good and the Eternal, even if it looks naive from the outside. Everyone is on their own level. It is worth realizing and understanding-accepting at what level we ourselves are. How to compare yourself to others for the better.
Provocation: cast pearls in front of pigs. We present information in the form for which we are ready. And once on the other side, we don't make fun of what we don't understand.
This is Ophiuchus, a star of the 2nd magnitude, Arabic "going ahead." The white star is 84 light years away.
Servants: Moon, Mercury, Jupiter.
(+) A great time to study and research various issues of interest to us. We are observant, we remember important information better than usual. But do not get too carried away with the subject, we leave time and energy for relatives and friends and for solving everyday issues.
Do not shock others with information that they are not ready to hear. And at the same time, we do not make premature judgments about a subject that we do not know well enough.
We may be too emotionally involved in the information we learn or in the events that happen to us. Forgetting what is currently not in the sphere of our attention. We respect traditions.
How to easily learn anything?
Last year I became a morning person, learned a foreign language and read 5 times more books than I could handle before. At first glance, I put a lot of effort into achieving such results. But in fact, I didn’t do anything supernatural and complicated.
These 4 principles helped me.
1. Do not rush into the pool with your head: do everything gradually.
When I started practicing self-improvement, I made one big mistake. I always set a pretty high bar for myself: get out of bed no later than 6 in the morning, read at least one book a week. And the difference between what I wanted to achieve and what I was able to achieve was so great that every day I was closer and closer to giving up.
But then I discovered that progress comes from small wins. And developed a strategy. It was to focus on repeating a certain action every day - while trying not to pay attention to how effective it would turn out. In other words, quantity comes first and quality second.
Here's where I started.
Reading: one page before bed
At first, I only read one page before going to bed (it often happened that more, but if I managed to master only one, I already considered this an achievement). When this habit took root, I set a timer and read for 15 minutes. I ended up reading for half an hour before bed and another half hour in the morning.
For comparison: in 2013 I read 7 books. In 2014 - 22. In 2015 - 33. And this is almost 5 times more than in 2013.
Learning a new language: one lesson every morning
At one time I studied French, but I treated it somehow superficially. When I decided that I wanted to improve my knowledge, I began to master one lesson at a time on the Duolingo website during my morning coffee.
It takes only 5 minutes for one lesson, and the tasks are not difficult. Then I already wanted to study more - two, three, sometimes even four or five lessons, if there was a mood. I did as much as I could, but one lesson is a must.
Now, according to Duo, I speak about 41% of French. And this is a huge achievement, if you think that at the very beginning I devoted 5 minutes a day to this language.
2. Focus on one thing.
Almost the hardest thing for me is not to spray. I always have so many grandiose plans, so much enthusiasm, so much I would like to succeed. But every time I tried to instill several habits at once, everything ended in failure. And the thing is that it is difficult for our brain to concentrate on several things at the same time.
Therefore, I had a new rule: only when I brought the skill to automatism, I could take on something new. For example, just getting used to reading before bed, I began to intensively study French. And when the French assignments became easy to complete, I focused on training myself to get up early.
Sometimes it takes a long time to master a skill. Most of all I suffered from getting up at 6 in the morning. For four months (four whole months!) I tried to find the right approach for myself, tracked my progress and shared my successes with friends, whose help was simply invaluable.
Now I'm a morning person - I wake up early without any alarms. It was not easy to achieve such results, but it was worth it.
In general, it takes plus or minus 66 days to develop a new habit (that is, about 2 months).
3. Remove obstacles: everything you need should be at hand.
I have noticed that it is much easier for me to cope with daily tasks when the things necessary to complete them are nearby. For example, I always took my phone with me for morning coffee - this is how I taught myself to study French regularly.
Or it was much easier for me to motivate myself to read a page before bed when my book was on my bedside table.
One of my plans for 2017 is to play the piano more often. Now I sit down for him when I have the mood, but this is not enough for there to be visible progress. However, I noticed that I was drawn to play when the piano was not far away. Now I put it in the living room next to the door that leads to the kitchen. Now I can play when I'm waiting for food to cook or when I'm in the kitchen for an afternoon snack.
Back in 2016, I would like to do more sports. Again, I've noticed that if I'm wearing a workout uniform in the morning, I get the urge to go for a run. Therefore, already in the evening I need to prepare the clothes that I will wear when I wake up.
4. Accumulate habits: let new ones be added to existing ones.
The action performed on automatism should become a kind of trigger and encourage to take up something new. For example, when I get out of bed in the morning, the first thing I do is go to the kitchen and make coffee. While the coffee is being prepared, I take up French. My long-established habit of making coffee is what encourages me to do the exercises. And when I'm about to go to bed, I immediately open the book: in this way, at the moment when I climb onto the bed, the trigger mechanism works for me, and I remember what I need to read.
Now the acquisition of new habits has become something of a hobby for me. And I am inspired by the very thought of how much more you can learn, moving in small steps.
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When we interact with the world around us in a harmonious and balanced way, a healing state of integrity is maintained, which is usually defined as health. Imbalance leads to the destruction of integrity and gives rise to disease. The cause of this disturbance is the ego.
Now it remains to find out what the concept of "Ego" carries in itself and how it differs from the concept of "I".
Let us turn to the witty remark of Frederick Perls, who makes a subtle distinction between these concepts: the expression "I want recognition" could well be replaced by such as "my ego needs recognition." But replacing "I want bread" with "My ego wants bread" sounds pretty absurd.
Thus, it becomes obvious that Ego and I are by no means identical structures.
I AM - spontaneously, that is, freely, authentically, that is, equal to oneself and naturally, as the moment is natural when a child pronounces this word, recognizing his place in the world around him.
Ego - artificial, biased, pretentious, ambitious, swaggering and stupid.
I AM - and there is a world concentrating at the point of its self-determination.
Ego - point of absurdity.
I AM is the moment of truth.
Speaking broadly, then Ego is the source of other people's desires and the source of their problems. The source of their problems precisely because it is the source of other people's desires. Why is that? What kind of paradox is this?
The thing is that many of our desires, which seem to us our own, do not come from us at all. They imperceptibly penetrated inside us in the form of someone's attitudes and took up "appropriate leadership positions." And it turns out that we do not have them, but they possess us.
For example, a child is growing. It grows and develops, quietly, intimately and secretly communicating with the Universe. A compassionate grandmother creeps up to him, pats him on the head and murmurs touchingly:
Granddaughter, if you eat poorly, you will never be big and strong. Don't leave anything on your plate. The last piece is all the power.
The child, choking, swallows the contents, which, apart from disgust, does not cause other emotions. Because he wants to get big and strong as soon as possible.
The strict father echoes loudly:
Until you eat everything, you won’t go for a walk.
The child, like a boa constrictor, absorbs the remnants of the cooled food. Because he wants to jump out from behind the table faster and break out into the street.
The kind mother enveloping with tenderness exaltedly chirps:
Eat, little one, eat, and when you eat everything, you will get something tasty.
The child sits doomedly with a full mouth and convulsively tries to push the unchewed masses into the rebellious esophagus. Because he wants to get something tasty faster.
The "I" of the child intuitively strives for movement. His natural desire is to become strong, free and have fun. But someone else's will blocks these natural aspirations - it turns out that in order to get strength, freedom and pleasure, you need to eat a lot. In the future, the act of eating will turn into an act of symbolic absorption.
And, turning into an adult uncle (or aunt), little "ego", becoming big, will declare: “In order for me to live well, conveniently, comfortably, I need to absorb a lot (everyone has options here):
tenderness and affection;
compassion;
reverence;
food, after all.
Ah, how the voice of the crying Ego is heard in the desert of the devastated mind:
"I am insatiable and devouring!"
And there is absolutely nothing wrong if a person earns money, loves sex, seeks attention, tenderness, care and affection, strives for self-affirmation. In this case, the whole trouble lies in the fact that he does not receive any of this! And the insatiable Ego, like an eagle tormenting the liver of Prometheus, asks: “Why?! Why does the neighbor have it and I don't?" - and begins to hate those who have it. Thus, defective Ego-love gives birth to envy and aggression.
But the question arises:
why does a person who so passionately hungers for these benefits not receive them?
The answer is simple, although it is formulated, it would seem, in a paradoxical form, -
the whole point is that our life is the fulfillment of our desires.
This is where we seem to hit a dead end. How is it that, on the one hand, life is the fulfillment of desires, and on the other hand, nothing like this happens, and if it does, it is so rare and in relation to such trifles that it is insulting to mention them.
In fact, we have reached a dead end only seeming because, looking in front of us and seeing the wall, we do not notice the side door through which you can safely get out of the “maze” without returning back.
If, even without delving into the problem, we look at it somewhat detachedly, then we will easily find obvious things that are quite consistent with the studies conducted above. It turns out that there is nothing paradoxical in the fact that life fulfills all our desires. And let's make it clear right away. exactly our desires.
And they are sometimes so secret, hidden and hidden that the person who wears them in himself may not be aware of their existence at all.
Indeed, it is difficult to look into your subconscious.
There is no miracle at all in the fact that this happens (except, of course, life itself is not considered a miracle). There is a single order of things, a single stream of Being, where patterns follow one after another in strict harmony, balanced and determined. The “I” of a person, that is, the deep part of his personality - a being that is a fragment of Being, naturally, also possesses the primordial power of Being. And what at the psychological level seems to be a kind of desire, at a deeper level it seems energy impulse that generates a cascade of chain reactions, which ultimately leads to a specific goal.
This means that we are talking about the desires of the “I”, and not the “Ego”. The latter is torn off from spontaneous Being, does not possess its power and is dissonant with it.
That is why any Egocentric position is destroyed with the inevitability with which a tooth affected by caries falls apart.
Now situations where a person loses exactly what he most wants to possess become more understandable.
Let's continue the example with our overfed baby. His "I" rejects food and strives only for freedom of movement - the child wants to walk, which is quite understandable, because for children the street is a springboard for self-expression. It is as intuitive as it is for sick animals to search for the right healing herb. But food is still imposed and at the same time reinforced by social incentives and a whole system of authorities. Thus, the aspirations of the "I" are suppressed, and the tensions of the "Ego" are cultivated.
Growing up, this person continues to subconsciously reject the symbols of possession - money, things, relationships, sex, affection, tenderness, but compensatory calls for the power of the Ego to acquire them, which causes an internal conflict that closes a vicious circle.
History abounds in situations like this. Salvador Dali expressed an interesting opinion that Adolf Hitler unleashed the war in order to lose it in disgrace. The idea seems outrageous, scandalous - in the spirit of the personality of the master of surrealism himself. But after all, in fact, it is quite rational and psychoanalytically verified.
It is known that in his personal life the Fuhrer was a masochist and experienced great pleasure when he was humiliated by women, in which Eva Braun masterfully succeeded and thanks to which she remained close to the leader until the very end of the tragic events. The dictator of the Third Reich fell into violent exaltation, wallowing at the feet of an arrogant Frau, and, kissing her shoes, begged the lady to kick him, humiliate her "lackey" and show all her cold imperiousness.
Of course, in the stands, the leader of the Aryans, stretching his right hand over the roaring crowds, forgot about his intimate passages, but his "I" craved self-destruction, while the "Ego", torn apart by compensatory power-hungry complexes, demanded the destruction of the world. In the end, Hitler ignominiously lost the war. But his shame was his triumph. And perhaps his death was the greatest orgasm of his life.
And life itself finally fulfilled the secret desire of this monster.
Thus, the law of the fulfillment of desires demonstrates its objective force.
- My husband left me. So this is what I wanted?
- I lost my job...
And my money was stolen...
And they punched me in the face...
- And we have…
- And this is our true desire?!
My clients are perplexed at first, they simply refuse to believe:
“How is it that my illness is the result of my intention?”
- It turns out that way.
- But it's not like that!
- But as?
- I-I don't know. You know better. But what you say... it's hard to believe.
When you offer people this information, you immediately run into resistance. The ego resists, of course. It feels hurt and begins to put up all sorts of defenses.
From whom is the ego protected?
The logic of the events under consideration leads us to a simple and obvious conclusion: the dominant and basic motive for the behavior of a human being in this world is his desire for protection.
Defense is the same as attack.
This means that the defense is inherently aggressive.
Aggression - from the Latin agressio - "attack", "attack".
During a duel, the aggressor and the defender are inseparable, they are merged, as in a love fight, and form a single whole. Any line and division between them are erased, and it is no longer possible to recognize who is who.
Therefore, any defense is a potential attack.
Aggression attracts aggression.
That is why someone who is overly concerned with his own protection is attacked sooner or later.
The purpose of protection is to reduce the level of basic anxiety that appears from the moment of birth of the individual, as well as to maintain self-esteem and a sense of self-worth. Based on psychoanalytic studies, we can say that the human body immediately, as soon as it is born, begins to defend itself.
Throughout the subsequent life, the person unconsciously resorts to certain defensive maneuvers, since both the awareness of his own significance and the invariable presence of hidden anxiety that give rise to other unpleasant experiences remain relevant for him.
This whole process is characterized by the following semantic series:
Defense - Defense - Attack - Aggression - Cut - Separate - Split - Trauma.
It is possible to determine this or that protection by observing the behavior of the subject. Therefore, we can also talk about behavioral ways of responding, among which the most obvious and obvious draw attention to the following:
Primitive isolation. Care in a different state of consciousness is observed even in infants, when they experience psychophysical discomfort. In the adult state, it is observed in a similar variant, in which the requirements of reality seem too rigid. Therefore, this method of protection can be figuratively defined as "escape from reality."
The most common forms of isolation include the use of psychoactive drugs to achieve an altered state of consciousness, or the development of excessive fantasy activity.
Other options for such a response, such as immersion in the virtual worlds of television, a computer network, audio acoustics, are similar in meaning to the above - escape from reality with the help of trance states.
This type of protection is characterized by: turning off the subject from active participation in solving the current situation, emotional coldness towards close people, inability to establish trusting and open relationships.
However, psychological withdrawal from reality can occur with little or no distortion of reality. The subject finds comfort in withdrawing from the world. The ability to stay away from stereotypes contributes to a unique and extraordinary perception of life. And here we can meet outstanding writers, mystics, gifted contemplative philosophers who have found their emotional shelter in the sphere of intellectual abstractions.
Negation. The main reactions by which it is possible to determine the subject prone to this defense are characterized by the following remarks:
“Everything is fine, and everything is for the better!”,
"If I don't admit it, then it can't be."
Denial is an attempt to ignore the real event that causes anxiety. An example would be a political leader who left his post, but continues to behave as before - as if he were an outstanding statesman. The alcoholic who stubbornly refuses to acknowledge his dependence on alcohol is also an example of denial. This protection also includes the ability to distort the real picture of events that have already occurred in their memories.
Positive aspect: ignoring the danger in a critical situation, where the manifestation of the guarantor of salvation is composure and calmness. Emotional and energy activity in situations in which others can give in to obstacles.
Negative aspect: emotional "collapses" as a result of depletion of energy resources after an exalted state, in which real difficulties are diminished or not noticed at all. Depression. Despondency.
Almighty control. It develops from primary Egocentrism, when the newborn of his "I" and the world are perceived as a single whole, without any boundaries. If an infant experiences cold and at this time a person who takes care of him warms him up, then the child has an experience that he himself has obtained the warmth by magic.
The realization that the source of life support is outside of himself has not yet appeared.
The discovery of this fact is accompanied by negative experiences that infringe on the sense of self-worth and self-respect.
In the future, such protection is actualized as a reaction of compensation for the feeling of one's own insignificance, helplessness, dependence, inferiority. It usually manifests itself as a "healthy balance" and is expressed in a sense of professional competence and life efficiency.
But there are also negative manifestations of this protection: manipulation, "stepping over others" in order to achieve one's goal, authoritarianism and directiveness. The Savior complex, often observed in politicians, teachers, lawyers, doctors, is the conviction of the subject that the fate of another person or people depends on him. Magic, in all its forms, is also a neurosis based on the idea of omnipotent control, brought to a tense, psychopathological form.
Primitive idealization. As the child grows up, the realization comes that he does not have omnipotence. Then this idea is transferred to the one who takes care of him, and the latter is already perceived as omnipotent. In this case, we are talking about a secondary, so-called dependent omnipotence. In the end, this illusion also collapses, and the child has to put up with the fact that his parents are not the strongest in the world.
The moment of psychic maturity involves the understanding that no one person has unlimited possibilities.
If a person, even in his adult state, contains in himself not obsolete infantile qualities, he is inclined to defend himself, creating an idol for himself. Hence also comes the desire to believe that the rulers and mighty of this world have more wisdom and power than mere mortals, although each time events show that this is just a desire, but by no means a reality.
The search for the perfect object drains vitality, as it always leads to another disappointment, which is a terrible consequence of such protection.
Devaluation.
We are talking about primitive depreciation - the reverse side of idealization (see above).
Since the subject inevitably becomes convinced that there is nothing perfect in human life, all primitive methods of idealization necessarily lead to disappointment. And the more an object is extolled, the more pronounced its depreciation becomes. The more captivating the illusion, the more painful its collapse. The fate of any idol is to eventually be overthrown, and they put it on a pedestal in order to be thrown off it later. History is an excellent illustration of this.
In everyday life, we are witnessing how the saying “from love to hate is one step” works. Some people, in pursuit of the ideal, get stuck in a painful cycle of idealization - devaluation, each time experiencing the fall of their idol, that is, their own disappointment, with new pain.
Projection.
Attributing to another object feelings or intentions that come from the ascriber himself. At the same time, as a rule, the shadow qualities of the personality are projected, that is, those that are rejected by it, are forced out as undesirable and unacceptable. The content of the projection is easy to find out if you ask the subject what qualities in others irritate him the most. It is these qualities that he possesses.
Since it seems impossible to penetrate the soul of another person, in order to comprehend his inner world, one has to use one's own psycho-emotional experience, which is updated through projective mechanisms, reviving such processes as intuition, empathy, and a sense of mystical unity with a partner.
When using this type of protection, there is a danger of misunderstanding and substitution of the true for the false in interpersonal relationships. The distorted perception of another subject occurs due to attributing to him those qualities that he does not possess, which in turn leads to alienation and, ultimately, the collapse of relations.
It is interesting to note that a person onto whom certain internal properties are projected begins to behave in accordance with these properties in relation to the projector. And in this way, a kind of balance is restored, working on the principle of "what I give, I get." In this sense, it is useful to remember that the people around us are our own mirrors. And from this we can conclude that projecting your positive qualities is much more profitable than rejected ones. For our own projections, sooner or later, but always inevitably, return to ourselves.
Introjection.
The process of reverse projection, when what comes from outside is perceived by a person as happening inside.
In an infant, this phenomenon is associated with the need for survival and development.
Long before the conscious imitation of his parents, he, as it were, "swallows" them, introduces their images into himself.
An object that is significant to us literally becomes a part of ourselves thanks to introjection.
Introjection is the basis of deep affection, a sense of unity with another, but at the same time it is the inability to let go of another person, to recognize his freedom and autonomy, the inability to emotionally switch to others and the world as a whole. In the end, such entanglement leads to psychological exhaustion, decline in vitality and turns into depression.
People are constantly changing, and they are not at all designed to live up to our expectations. But at the same time, the introject turns out to be a fixed, "frozen" image, not a person, but his model, a scheme that is not at all the same as a living sample. And it turns out that the real person constantly leaves, eludes the one who indulges in excessive introjection and lingers on this defense. The departure of another is a rather powerful psychotrauma, because at the same time, some part of one's own “I”, which was filled with this other, also leaves, dies.
Identification with the aggressor.
Manifested in the imitation of someone who can exert negative pressure. If someone masks his fear of some kind of authority, he may adopt his manner in an exaggerated or caricatured way. "I will be like him, then his power will be inside me."
Projective identification.
It is a projection onto another person with a subsequent attempt to take control over him. For example, someone may project their hostility towards another person and then fearfully expect to be attacked by that person.
Split.
As a phenomenon, it is observed even in the early period, when the baby is not able to perceive the people who care for him holistically, with all their inherent variety of qualities and psychological shades. In the spectrum of a child's experiences, there is either "good" or "bad", which are attributed to the world around him, depending on his own state. The whole palette of transitional positions eludes his perception, and the dialectical comprehension of life is unknown to him.
Splitting in adults is easily recognized in their political and moral assessments, when there is a tendency to search for a "common enemy" that threatens the "good" representatives of a particular party or society. The tendency to divide people into "bad" and "good", and the world into "white" and "black" also indicates the presence of a primitive way of responding - splitting.
Splitting leads to a decrease in anxiety (the principle “better bad news than no news” works), maintaining self-esteem by identifying, self-determining and concretizing one’s own position.
This method of protection always distorts reality, impoverishes the emotional perception of life. In his categoricalness, he is close to obsession. Not without reason in the ancient Greek language rategoros means "Satan".
Repression (repression).
Let's imagine the following situation. Someone receives a letter from his friend and, overjoyed, is about to reply. However, he soon pushes back his decision a little, justifying himself with a large “load” and fatigue or “unfortunate forgetfulness”. However, with some effort of will, he forces himself to write a couple of pages, only to find that he has no envelope. Having acquired an envelope a week later, our unlucky character forgets to write the address, but, having completed this procedure, he keeps the letter in his coat pocket for several days, since he did not meet a single mailbox on the way. Finally, he sends his reply message and sighs with relief.
The hero of the described situation turned out to be a thoughtful person, and therefore drew attention to the fact why he hesitated to answer for such a long time. After a detailed analysis of his actions and feelings, he realized that the correspondent, who was considered his friend, actually annoyed him. AND his Unconscious knew this is long before he realized his true feeling, which was repressed so as not to cause negative emotions or anxiety.
We reluctantly recall unpleasant events in our lives or completely forget about them - the process of repression also works here.
There is a simple experiment where it is proposed to recall a time or event that was accompanied by psychologically painful experiences - the death of a close friend or relative, humiliation or resentment. First of all, attention is drawn to the lack of interest in clearly remembering such an incident, resistance to talking about it. Perhaps, at the same time, there is a doubt about the need for such an occupation, although at the beginning this idea could be accepted with readiness. At the same time, all "extraneous" thoughts and doubts are also interpreted as resistance.
The essence of the described defense consists in removing the unpleasant experience from consciousness and keeping it at a distance from consciousness. As a result of such suppression, diseases such as asthma, arthritis, ulcers, frigidity, impotence can even arise.
Regression.
A return to a lower level of development or to a mode of expression that is simpler and more childlike. In essence, it is a return to a familiar way of acting after reaching a new level in individual development. Every adult, even the well-adjusted, resorts to this defense from time to time to "blow off steam." This can be expressed in anything: people seek "thrill" sensations, smoke, get drunk, overeat, bite their nails, pick their noses, sleep during the day, ruin things, chew gum, daydream, rebel against and obey authorities, preen themselves in front of a mirror, play in gambling, get sick.
Sometimes regression is used in order to be in the role of the weak and thereby win the sympathetic attention of others.
Isolation of affect.
Separation of experience from situation. At the same time, the psychotraumatic component of the current event is removed from consciousness. At the level of feeling, this manifests itself as a detachment, alienation from the situation. Mental stupor is one of the options for isolation of affect.
Intellectualization.
It manifests itself as self-control, external emotional restraint about a really exciting situation. This protection indicates the blockage of emotional energy, the inability of full and adequate emotional self-expression.
Rationalization.
This behavior is about finding acceptable reasons or reasons for unacceptable thoughts or actions. In other words, it is a rational explanation of irrational thoughts. All our excuses are our rationalizations.
Rationalization also hides a selfish motive, which is accomplished under the guise of good.
For instance, some parents console their power-hungry complexes by forcing their children to follow their will, motivating this by the fact that this is done for their own benefit. A characteristic phrase in rationalization is: "I'm doing this solely for your good." However, in this case, it is not at all difficult to distinguish a good motive from a bad intention. Kindness never imposes itself. Having offered its services, it calms down, and the imposed good is already evil.
Moralization.
These are the same justifications, but from the standpoint of moral obligations:
"All this is done for the sake of the triumph of truth and justice."
If the innovator says, "Thank you for the science," then the moralizer says, "It builds character."
Separate thinking. Coexistence in consciousness of Two contradictory and conflicting ideas or states without awareness of this contradiction.
In everyday life, there are many examples when a zealous champion of virtue is found to have an extensive collection of pornographic postcards, and a well-known humanist turns out to be a domestic despot and tyrant.
One common variation of this strategy is what is called hypocrisy.
Cancellation.
From the standpoint of the Unconscious, a thought is equivalent to an act. This position is the source of our superstitious, magical behavior. If we allow some reprehensible thought in our mental depth, then, as a result, certain feelings arise: either fear of punishment, or shame, or guilt. In order to cancel undesirable consequences, the mechanism of magical compensation is activated, designed to balance the committed misconduct, as if to get even for it, but in a painless way.
Examples of such behavior are well known. There are well-known cases when we give gifts after a quarrel or an outburst of irritation the day before. Thus, unconsciously, the feeling of guilt is smoothed out, and the soul can feel calm.
However, in this case, we can talk about cancellation only if the inner, deep motive is not realized. (This principle also applies to all other defenses - they are all applied unconsciously, and not as a deliberate strategy.)
Many of our rituals carry the aspect of annulment. And since we have a hidden conviction that hostile thoughts are dangerous, the desire to atone for sins committed even if only in thoughts is a universal impulse inherent in human nature in general.
Thus, a "redemptive" kind of behavior can be considered a variant of annulment. For example, a selfish and capricious child, growing up, "redeems his sin" by becoming an outstanding figure in the field of human rights, and a tormentor of yard cats - a famous veterinarian.
Turn against yourself (Reverse feeling).
Redirection of a negative feeling meant for another object to oneself. We see this kind of criticism, which turns into self-blame, in situations where we prefer to reproach ourselves instead of expressing our disappointment to someone else.
As a positive aspect of this protection, one can consider the tendency to take responsibility for what happens on oneself, rather than transfer it to others, projecting one's unpleasant feelings. But on the other hand, in this propensity, in this case, the true motive is not a conscious willingness to be responsible, but an unconscious anxiety that needs cushioning, which, in general, does not solve the problem.
If you decide that you need changes, you are tired of walking in a vicious circle and stepping on the same rake. and together we will find a way out.
One of the signs of the spiritual and cultural catastrophe that has befallen us has been foul language. If earlier swearing was mainly the specific language of criminals, drunkards and other degraded persons, now swearing is penetrating deeper and deeper into all social and age strata of society, they are trying to impose on us more and more that the Russian language is generally impossible without swearing. Let's start with the fact that mat is an ancient phenomenon and inherent in almost all peoples. The Apostle Paul wrote about the "rotten word".
What is the phenomenon of swearing? Why do words denoting mainly medical terms, when “translated” into a swear language, become obscene foul language? Why are they used at all, often not for their intended purpose? In all languages and cultures, swear words mean the same thing. This is a relatively small (“dirty dozen”, as the English say) and closed group of words. This group includes the names of parts of the human body, primarily genitals, physiological functions, sexual intercourse and words derived from them.
Shamefulness is “a purely pagan heritage. It is entirely rooted in the phallic cults of the Ancient East, starting from the depths of Satan (see: Rev. 2, 24) and the dark abyss of debauchery in honor of Baal, Astarte and others, and ending with the classical heirs of Ham. The cults of ancient Babylon, the land of Canaan, which practiced the sacrifice of babies, the service of debauchery, fornication, ritual prostitution, and gave the appropriate terminology of ritual spells that formed the basis of swearing.
By uttering obscene words, a person (even if unwittingly) calls upon demonic forces and participates in a savage cult. It is known that the peoples inhabiting Canaan were conquered by the Jews and mercilessly exterminated at the command of God. And this is not at all inexplicable cruelty, but the righteous wrath of God, the punishment for monstrous corruption and the worship of sin. We are responsible for every idle word, especially the bad one. Nothing passes without a trace, and by insulting the mother of another person, sending curses to him, we thereby bring trouble on ourselves. Let us recall the words of St. John Chrysostom: "Whoever is chosen obscenely, exposes himself to a curse on that day." Very often, people who are in spiritual darkness hear voices that utter a stream of obscene abuse and blasphemy. It is easy to guess who these voices belong to. Swearing has long been called the language of demons.
The devil, unfortunately, is not a horror movie character, but a real force that exists in the world. And a person who uses obscene, nasty, black words himself opens the doors of his soul to this force. He who is accustomed to swearing is already dependent on his bad habit. As the apostle says, by committing sin, the servant is sin. Whoever thinks that he is independent of his habit of swearing, let him try not to use obscenities for at least two days, and he will understand who is the boss in the house. Quitting swearing is no easier than quitting smoking.
A teenager, subtly scolding, wants to hide his inner weakness, infantilism. And instead of proving by deed that he is already an adult, he puts on the armor of rudeness and impregnability. That's how cool I am - and I swear, and I smoke, and I drink. It looks funny and childish. The one who is really strong does not need to prove it to the whole world. A truly independent person is not one who lives according to the law of the herd: where everyone is, there I am. A strong man does not allow a bad habit to dominate him. If you swear in the presence of girls and you yourself allow them to swear, what kind of men are you after that?
Every young person who uses swearing should ask himself the question: will he be pleased when his little son or daughter starts swearing in front of him? There is a very interesting custom in American families. When children bring swear words from the street and ask about their meaning, parents, as a rule, explain everything honestly, but then they make the child wash their mouth with soap without fail, because vile words stain both the mind, the soul, and the ear, and the speaker their mouth. It would be nice for us to introduce a similar custom for our children.
Below is a list of spoken words that could and can negatively affect our lives. If you have said such words before, it does not mean that you are under a curse, but let this list help you cut such words out of the conversation and repent for some of them that are clearly aimed at releasing curses. Some of the words were spoken a very long time ago and most likely you no longer speak them, but the power of the curse of the unleashed may then still reach for you until you renounce and destroy it all. This does not apply to everyone, but maybe you need it today more than others.
Damn - everyone understands the embedded meaning.
Hurray - from the Turkic "ura" - "beat".
Hip-hip-hooray! - the initial letters of the Roman exclamation "Jerusalem we will destroy"
Wow - Wow.
ay - there was such a forest demon named Au.
Chur is the spirit of the ancestor.
For the future - the god of reserves.
The first pancake is lumpy- dedication of the primordial god Whom. Until now, sacrifices are made to him on pancakes.
I'm amazed, deadly (amazing) - exterminated.
It is written with a pitchfork on the water- in Russia there were mermaids "forks", turning to which one could receive a revelation.
Genius — the spirit of an outstanding person who was worshiped even after death.
Stunned ...
Go crazy...
Adore — deify
Charmed - bewitched, enchanted (charming) - bewitched.
How it was removed by hand ... (witchcraft)
When I eat, I am deaf and dumb...
In the coffin I saw...
A few examples of the possible consequences of saying incorrect statements and words:
- I will never bend for someone or work for a penny
(possible consequences; constant change of jobs, conflicts in the team, problems with superiors, etc.)
- I will never marry
(possible consequences; loneliness, divorce, diseases of the genital organs, unsuccessful love, terrible character, etc.)
- I will never be weak (oh) - (men do not cry, I am a strong woman)
(possible consequences; hard heart, inability to be emotional, to experience the touch of God)
I will never have naughty children
(possible consequences; infertility, diseases of the genital organs, death of children or miscarriages, traumatic children, etc.)
— life must be lived beautifully, I will take everything from life
(possible consequences; drug addiction, alcoholism, perversions, troubles, illnesses, addictions, etc.)
— I do not need anything in this life, I decide only to serve God.
(possible consequences; lack of all material goods, no family, no job)
I will never be like my father, mother
(possible consequences; misunderstanding with loved ones, no relationship, no common interests, complete opposite)
- I'm always unlucky
(possible consequences; failure in all areas of life
no one can be trusted in this life
(possible consequences; lack of faith, distrust of everyone, skepticism, criticism, condemnation, suspicion, etc.)
I will never be second, last
(possible consequences; careerism, rebellion, defiance, conflicts, dominance, control, manipulation)
Examples of major issues related to what has been said in the past.
Mental or emotional distress:
"It drives me crazy"
"It is unbearable".
"I can not go on".
"These thoughts drive me crazy"
“I will never be like my father (my mother), I will never treat my family, children like that and I will not do what they do” (a curse based on condemnation and an oath).
Recurrent or chronic illnesses:
"I tremble at the thought of..."
"I'm sick of it and I can't take it anymore"
“This has always happened in my family, and apparently I will be next…”
"I don't want to see (hear) anymore..."
Infertility, tendency to miscarry, or female problems:
"I don't think I'll ever get pregnant"
“But what the hell, this is again…”
“I know that this time nothing will work out with childbirth, I will lose this child too - it always happens!”
Family breakdown or family alienation:
“I was told that my husband would leave me”
“Inwardly, I always knew that my husband would find another woman for himself”
“In our family, we have always lived like a cat with a dog”
“Husband and wife are one….”
Persistent financial shortfall:
“I will never be able to make ends meet. My father was the same."
"I can't afford to tithe"
"I hate those 'fat faces' who always get what they want, 'This will never happen to me!'
Being a person with whom "something always happens":
"This can only happen to me"
"I knew it would happen"
"I'm such a loser"
Suicide or unnatural early deaths:
"What's the point of living?"
"Only over my dead body"
"I'd rather die than continue this."
All these words suggest that the demons take control of the lives of the speakers into their own hands.
Curse words:
Curses of the sexual (childbearing) organs (and what is in them). + disrespect for mothers (when through a mat you claim that you had an intimate relationship with someone's mother).
Prayer:
Lord Jesus Christ, I believe that You are the Son of God and the only way to God; and that you died on the cross for my sins and rose from the dead. I lay down all my rebellion and all my sin, and I submit myself to You as my Lord. I confess all my sins before You and ask for Your forgiveness - especially for those words and expressions that have resulted in curses in my life. I renounce those words I said (list all) Lord Jesus, I believe that on the cross You took upon Yourself every curse that could ever come upon me. So, I ask You now to release me from every curse over my life - in Your Name, Lord Jesus Christ!!! I now accept my deliverance by faith and thank You for it. And now I take authority over every curse on my life and break it in the Name of Jesus Christ. Namely, I destroy (list all again) Lord, I thank you that all these statements, statements and words are now destroyed and no longer have authority and power over me. I believe that now no demon has any reason to remain in me and in my life. In the Name of Jesus Christ, I command all the demons that were associated with those curses to get away from me and never come back. Holy Spirit, come down on me now and fill me to excess and drive out of me everything that does not belong to me and prevents me from fulfilling the will of God. Set me free and cleanse me and fill me with truth. I submit to you Holy Spirit. Amen
After that, begin to thank the Lord for His freedom and for His work in you. Be sure to start speaking words of faith in your life, the opposite of the curses that you brought on yourself before. For example, if you said that you would not succeed, start saying that you will succeed in Jesus Christ strengthening you, etc. You need now to sow in the field of your life that which will bear fruit in the future. The bad is uprooted and thrown away—sow the good seed now, the seed of God, the seed of faith, the word of life.
And in the end, I would like to remind you, watch your words and expressions, now try to release from your mouth only that which will bring good fruit. Scripture says Prov.18:21 ... he is satisfied with the work of his mouth.
My child, I know you have realized that when I tell you about someone, I only reveal the potential that I see in them. I say what I see, what I hope and dream about them. Therefore, what I say is life for them. And you should do the same. Speak what life brings to the people you love and to the people who curse you and to those who are wrong to you. Look at Me as I do. Even when My children daily reject My Word and grieve Me with their thoughts and actions, I still in My compassion continue to tell them that which carries My love and life. Ask Me for the gift of compassion so that you can speak what brings life and hope to all who are wrong before you. Learn from Me, for I am your Teacher.
I am indeed your teacher. I also use people to teach you. Because there are many members in My Body, and for each of them I have determined its function. Do not despise the small and humble ones that I am sending to teach you. For it is those whom you oppress in My Body that I will use for your own correction, and until you repent of your pride towards them, you will be blinded by your own sin.
It doesn't matter to me if it's a man or a woman
Those who believe that I will only use men to speak through them and teach My Word are deceived. For there is no difference between a man and a woman in the spirit before Me. If I choose a woman to speak My word, then why do you want to be a stumbling block to her? If I have found any man or woman with clean hands and a pure heart, and they are obedient to My voice, then I will use him or her. It is an abomination in My sight if you control My Body with your thumb, thinking that I do the same. Therefore, if you oppress anyone in My Body, male or female, who hears Me and wants to obey Me, then I will judge you, because your actions bring life or death to many others in a ripple effect. And until you repent of holding people back from the calling I have for them, the blood will be on your hands.
Ministers, Pastors, Leaders! You need to humble yourself before Me and return to Me, the One True God. Stop playing the part of God for my people. For I have appointed you to shepherd the flock, and not to lead it in your own theological doctrinal way. I will ask you and you will be responsible to Me for your actions in relation to My Body.
My body, notice that I use both male and female to do My ministry. Nobody is higher than the rest. If you find yourself controlling, dominating and even manipulating My Body (male or female) with the power given to you, then I will surely visit you and require you to give an account. Stop oppressing My people, especially women. You will notice that I am using many women in this last time because they have humbly submitted to Me and are obedient to what I ask and what I say. If you go against My chosen ones, I will strike you. Come to Me to receive the absolute truth, for My Body is deceived, and only I can show you the absolute truth. Ask Me for revelation of the truth and I will give it to you. My body, if you can overcome the control, intimidation and manipulation (Jezebel) rampant in the current church structure, then I will give you a scepter to rule and reign with Me.
But I have little against you, because you allow the wife of Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess, to teach and mislead My servants, to commit adultery and eat things sacrificed to idols. I gave her time to repent of her fornication, but she did not repent. Behold, I am throwing her into a bed, and those who commit adultery with her into great tribulation, unless they repent of their deeds. And I will strike her children with death, and all the churches will understand that I am the one who searches hearts and inward parts; and I will render to each of you according to your deeds. But to you and to others who are in Thyatira, who do not keep this teaching and who do not know the so-called depths of Satan, I say that I will not place any other burden on you; just what you have, keep it until I come. He who overcomes and keeps my works to the end, to him I will give power over the Gentiles, and he will rule them with a rod of iron; like earthenware they will be broken, just as I have received authority from my Father; and I will give him the morning star. He who has an ear (to hear), let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches (Revelation 2:20-29).
Because I certainly gave her time to repent, but this Jezebel spirit in the church structures keeps My people in bondage and My people, because of their pride, cannot walk in God's destiny. Repent, My people, for pride creeps up behind you and you cannot see it, but it is it that blinds you to your own fall. When was the last time you bowed your knees and humbled yourself before Me? I listen and heed with a broken heart. In contrition and humility you will become close to My heart. And, if in your own pride you think that you yourself have already done it, then the fact of the matter is that it is you who think so. Because only in Me can you do it! Humble yourself and come to Me so that I can remove the veil from your eyes that has blinded you! Only I can show you your true state. Be wise - humble yourself.
The pride of a man humiliates him, but the humble in spirit gains honor (Proverbs 29:23).
CHAPTER 4
SPIRITUAL ABUSE IN MY BODY
My child, I want to talk about spiritual abuse in my Body. The biggest reason for My Body's enslavement and its failure to walk in unity lies in the spiritual pride of those who once had a long walk as a Christian but stopped listening to My voice somewhere in the middle of the way. And now they are simply driven by motives belonging to religion.
You must daily deny your life and follow Me. You need to make daily choices to submit to Me, love Me and be obedient to Me. Many in My Body don't even know Me. For them, I am religion, so they just blindly follow others. But sheep cannot lead sheep. I am the only true Shepherd. I AM the Truth, the Way and the Light. Why does My Body prefer to hear from others when I want to personally speak in their lives? There are so many who are chasing various prophets to get a word from Me through them; but why don't you just come to Me and hear this word directly from Me? Do you have time to come and just sit at My feet? Come to Me, come and sit in silence, waiting for Me.
And those who hope in the Lord will be renewed in strength: they will lift up their wings like eagles, they will run and not get tired, they will walk and not get tired. (Isaiah 40:31).
Many of those who have followed Me for many years have now turned away from their first and true Love.
But I have against you that you left your first Love. So, remember where you fell from, and repent, and do the former works; but if not, I will quickly come to you, and I will remove your candlestick from its place, unless you repent. However, it is good in you that you hate the deeds of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate. He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches: To him who overcomes, I will give to eat from the Tree of Life, which is in the midst of the paradise of God. (Revelation 2:4-7).
Come back to Me, for I must be your first Love. When was the last time you embraced Me as a Father? And I am your perfect Father. If you come to Me, I will place you in My heart and be bigger and closer to you than your earthly father could ever be to you. Come My child, enter into Me. Be My child and I will be your Father. I love you so much—much more than your own earthly mother could ever love you. For if you make Me your Father and God, then I will surround you and protect you, love you, guide and teach you, and bless you far more than you can think of or pray for.
My conquerors
I desire a kingdom of priests and kings; and my true children - those who accept me as their Father (Yahweh) - will be priests and kings in my kingdom. You are already preparing to rule and reign with Me. These My children who love Me and obey Me will be called sons of God. And these sons who will be able to overcome the systems will be called overcomers. My conquerors will rule and reign with Me.
He who overcomes and keeps my works to the end, to him I will give power over the Gentiles, and he will rule them with a rod of iron; like earthenware they will be broken, just as I have received authority from my Father; and I will give him the morning star(Revelation 2:26-28).
For My overcomers will be kings and priests. My child, many of these overcomers are currently being trained to rule and reign with Me, as I have said. Your life on earth was not given to you just to have this life and live for it. If you allow Me to mold you and transform you into My likeness in accordance with My perfect will, then you will now, based on your current circumstances, be prepared to rule and reign with Me in the future. For some, such preparation and testing will be difficult, but blessed are you if you still go through these tests and trials so that I can test, form and grow the character within you.
Remember the life of Joseph, who was first tested by his own brothers and his family, and then falsely accused, but because of all this, he was formed. All this was necessary in order to form him for the future management and reign over Egypt. Joseph, in the midst of great suffering, kept his heart pure towards Me. Therefore, My sons, if I allow a trial and training that seems very painful to you, be steadfast and go through this race, keeping your heart pure for Me.
I test everyone in how a person treats their spouse, father, mother and children. If you can treat your spouse the way you treat Me, then you are faithful with little, which means I can give you more of that. But, if you mistreat your wife or husband by insulting her/him, you will not gain any power in the Millennium. I pay My attention to the little things. I will test you in your own home. If you cannot treat your house as mine now, you will not be able to have real authority in my house. For many of My precious children are being mistreated by certain authority figures (both in their own homes and in the church). Such people treat My people badly because of their own pride, selfishness and self-love. This is already a disease in My Church, and it starts at home. Satan had exactly the same problem - pride, selfishness and selfishness. This is a great sin against me.
David vs. Saul
And Saul fought it. The biggest problem in My Body is the “Saul syndrome”. Such cannot even discern Me and do My will. Once they were small in their own eyes, and then I supported them, but they never followed Me with their hearts. “Sauls” are characterized by pride, selfishness and pride. It is not easy for “Sauls” to bend their own knees and be humble before Me. If today's "Sauls" in power in their families and in My churches do not repent, then I will send them an evil spirit. I will expose the "Sauls" before everyone.
David also had many shortcomings, however, he could kneel down and repent of his own mistakes. David was aware of his shortcomings, but he was a real man who showed real maturity by humble himself. Those in My Body today are either "Sauls" or "Davids." You are either proud or humble. When was the last time you came before Me, bowing your knees and asking My forgiveness for your own pride? Saul ignored his own pride. And you'll go the same way that Saul did if you don't repent of that pride. In addition, your pride also harms those around you, because because of it you mistreat My precious people. The sin of pride hides behind it all other sins, such as: selfishness, selfishness, the desire to control and manipulate others.
Come to Me as David did and ask Me to purify your heart and renew your spirit. Put aside your knowledge and leave your own understanding, come and drink from Me, the Tree of Life. I will give you peace. Go and eat only from the Tree of Life. Protect your heart and be humble before Me! I'm going to shake the proud "Sauls" and expose them.
Do you want your pride to be exposed as well? So, repent and turn to Me, humble yourself. Do you want to be called "David" by My son or become known as the fallen and proud "Saul"? The choice is yours, so be wise in your free will!
CHAPTER 5
SONS OF GOD
Today I want to talk about the sons of God. It is true that, starting this year, many of My sons will be revealed to this earth. Those who allowed Me to form in themselves the image of My Son Yeshua will be called My sons. My true sons will obey my voice, like my Son Jesus. Because of His obedience to Me when He died for your sins to give you My Spirit and give you eternal life, many, many will be blessed.
Your obedience to Me has such an effect on the lives of others that right now you cannot even begin to comprehend the importance of obedience to Me. Your obedience can save many lives, and those to whom they belong will be grateful to you in eternity for your humble heart towards Me. It is obedience that will serve as the final and special test before becoming one of My sons. For the sons of God will only do and say what the Father Himself does and says.
Many are My children, but to become one of My sons (and daughters), you must be molded into the image of Christ and be obedient to the Father. Regardless of the price, which will be high, however, the reward is eternal. To walk with Me as Christ walked means to have a simple, day-to-day walk with Me. I am your Father and therefore you must have a relationship with Me so that I can speak to you and you can have fellowship with Me. I want to be your Father, teach you and reveal many things to you. Come to Me and ask Me to reveal My true heart to you. I want to show you My love. Ask Me to show My love for you. I love you with eternal love. I formed you in your mother's womb and thought of you when I was still planning My creation. I knew you before I laid the foundation of the world. I have known you because you are Mine and I have chosen you. You didn't choose me.
double choice
Today you again face a double choice: the Tree of Life or the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Every day you will stand in front of these two trees. I give you the gift of free will. My perfect will is that you choose the Tree of Life, which is good and represents Me. But you can also choose a tree of knowledge that represents your "Egyptian" life. I give you a choice through which you can exercise your free will, because to love is a choice.
If you love Me, then obey Me. If you love Me, you will understand that only I have the power to bring My promises to life in your life. By choosing My perfect will, you will be blessed, and your fruit will endure forever. If you use wisdom, then choose to walk in My perfect will. If you lack this wisdom, then ask Me for it. Not choosing My perfect will and plan is to continue walking in stubbornness, pride and selfishness.
If you feel and behave as if you are in love with the whole world, then everything around you will be in love with you ...
If you understood how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think negatively.
What are you thinking now? Look at what you are thinking about now, this will become your future. Think positive, love, success, luck, abundance and joy. And enjoy it in the future.
Remember, you attract what you believe in.
Feel today what you want to be tomorrow.
Your thoughts are your children. You must make each of them beautiful.Every thought should be a creative force directed towards good. Always remember that the power of thought is very great. Prepare to use it to help the world.
In your life there is only what is important to you. If something is not yet in your life, it is only because it is not important for you.
What we are today is the result of our yesterday's thoughts, and today's thoughts create tomorrow's life. Life is a creation of our mind.
We attract into our lives whatever we think about.
Follow your thoughts.
It is only thoughts that make a person unhappy or happy, not external circumstances. By controlling his thoughts, he controls his happiness.
In your life, what is more in your soul always prevails.
Just as we will not have a pleasant dwelling until we let fresh air and sunlight into our rooms, so our body will not be strong, and our face happy and clear, until our mind is open to good thoughts.
James Allen
How long do you think about good things?
That's how much good you will get.
There are no weak people.
We are all naturally strong.
Our thoughts make us weak.
Act as if failure is impossible and success is guaranteed. Drive away from yourself the thought that you will not achieve your goals, whether material or spiritual. Be bold and do not hold back the game of your imagination. Stop being a prisoner of your past. Be the architect of your future. You will never be the same again.
What you feel is what you radiate.
What you radiate is what you receive.
The voice in your mind is like a wild horse that carries you where it wants to go. Once you tame a horse, you can ride it, and then knowledge becomes a tool to take you where you want to go.
Miguel Ruiz
Your mind is what creates your heaven and your hell. It creates happiness, it creates suffering. Once you realize the power of your own mind, your life will begin to change. Be responsible for what you fill your mind with, that is what your life will be filled with.
As soon as we get rid of negative and harmful thoughts, the whole world will soften towards us and will be ready to help.
We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.
Jubran Hamil Jubran
No one will heal the diseases of the body better than a cheerful thought; benevolence is an incomparable comforter, dispelling all traces of grief and sorrow.
James Allen
You can emphatically say: “This is a beautiful universe, it brings me only good. The universe is at one with me in everything. The universe supports me no matter what I do. The universe responds to my needs immediately.” Feel that the Universe is friendly to you.
Rhonda Byrne. Secret
Do you know about the Cosmic Law -
Richard Bach
LIFE, I LOVE YOU!
Your relationship with life is always a mirror
how do you feel about life
this is how life will treat you.
And why is it so?
Because you and her are One.
In reality, there are two magicians - nature and our desires.
Limitations exist only in our minds. But if we use our imagination, our possibilities become limitless.
Thoughts are the main source of your good mood. Clear your thoughts - and all adversity will go away.
Everything that happens to you is a change in your internal states. Try to understand that their manifestation depends entirely on how you set yourself up.
Joy and suffering depend on your mind, on your interpretation. They do not come from outside, from others. All happiness and all suffering are created by you, your own mind. lama sopa
When people say: “I am limited, I am suffering, I am unhappy”, they do it without any difficulty. However, no one says: “I am free! I am immortal!”... Whose fault is this? Whatever you say, whatever you think, it will happen. Tomorrow or now your wish will be fulfilled. And if you think, "I am free," then you are free.
You change yourself, the outside world changes with you - there are no other changes.
Everything you need is already inside you. I believe that people create their own heaven and their own hell. It's a personal choice... Karl Logan
Your thoughts always come back to you like a boomerang.
If you are constantly working on something with all your soul, then it will happen, because that is the function of the mind - to make things happen. Nisargadatta Maharaj
Your thoughts become your life.
Wherever you go, you will only find what you brought with you.
It doesn't matter what world you live in, what matters is what world lives in you, because the inner world will become the birth of the outer world.
Paradise is not a place. This state...
What you get from life is what you give to life.
If you believe, - there is; don't believe it, no...What you believe is what you are... Maksim Gorky
What you pay attention to will grow. If you pay attention to the fact that something is missing, then the lack of this will increase even more.
Speak mentally and aloud only those words that should become the seeds of what you sow.
1) Your imagination creates your reality;
2) All your thoughts are things;
H) What you think about grows and condenses;
4) You become what you think about;
5) Your thoughts or assumptions shape your world. Therefore, always keep your mind on what you want and do not think about what is undesirable for you;
6) You can change the world by transforming your thoughts;
7) If you cannot change the situation, you can change its effect on you by changing your attitude or assumption about it. And, in the end, you may be able to change this situation.
It's all about thoughts. Thought is the beginning of everything. And thoughts can be controlled. And therefore the main thing of perfection is to work on thoughts.Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy
Everything we are is created by our thoughts.
The whole world inside a person is outside only his reflection.
With each thought, ask only one question: "Will this thought, if I follow it, make me noble or will it make me cruel? Will it make me stone, or will my fragrance be all over the world? Will it give me the strength to make people happy or will it make others miserable?"
The world, like a mirror, reflects your attitude towards it. When you are unhappy with the world, it turns away. When you fight the world, it fights you. When you stop your battle, the world comes forward.
Cultivate in yourself an unshakable faith in your strengths and capabilities. By the power of your thoughts you determine your own destiny. Just as clouds are the main source of rain, controlling one's own thoughts is the source of steady prosperity. You yourself become your own friend or enemy. Swami Sivananda.
I will see - I will believe, - said the man.
"Believe me, you'll see," said the Universe...
The grain is invisible in the ground, and from it grows a huge tree. Thought is just as imperceptible, and the greatest events of human life grow out of thought.
What you carry in your mind is what you see in the world around you, then you attract to yourself.
We ourselves cause failure in our lives. What you fear will happen to you. Think positively, attract happiness.
Everything begins within you, and then everything external responds to you in return ...
Light is in man. And the surrounding world of a person is illuminated by his own, inner Light. The world around us is the way we make it. Man is a kind of lamp. His inner Light, his love and true goodness is the power that illuminates the world around him. And around each of us there is always exactly as much Light as we gave it away. The more you open up, the brighter it becomes around you.
Thoughts are material. Our consciousness is everything. You become what you think.If a person speaks or acts with evil thoughts, he is haunted by pain. If a person speaks or acts with pure intentions, happiness follows him, which, like a shadow, will never leave him. To live right, you need to fill the brain with the “right” thoughts. Right thinking will give you whatever you want; wrong thinking is an evil that will eventually destroy you.
We get out of life what we believe in. You believe that life is beautiful - and it is beautiful. You believe it's terrible - it's terrible. You believe that there is no way out, and you will not find a way out. If you believe that there is a way out, you will definitely see it. You are waiting for trouble - it will definitely come. You are afraid of getting sick - you will get sick. You believe in success - you will create it. You are waiting for happiness - it is already on its way to you! Our faith creates our reality.
You are where your thoughts are.
Make sure your thoughts are where you want to be.
Whatever you direct your attention to becomes more powerful in your life.
Everything that you deprive of your attention fades, collapses and disappears.
This is the tyranny of exhausted thinking. People who think in the same categories every day - mostly negative - are in the thrall of bad mental habits.
Instead of focusing on all the good things and thinking about how to make things even better, they became hostages of their past. Some worry about lost relationships or financial problems. Others suffer, remembering their far from perfect childhood. Still others sadly reflect on much more trivial things: about unfriendly notes in the voice of a salesman in a store or an employee at work. Those who think this way let worry destroy them. They themselves block the huge potentialities of their spirit, deprive it of the ability to work miracles and bring into their lives the possibility of the fulfillment of any desires. These people don't realize thatto control your mind means to control your life.
If you don't understand yourself well, you won't understand anything in this world. Because the world is you. Mikhail Veller
Only that which corresponds to your inner state is attracted to you and emanates from you.
Always expect the best - for you always get exactly what you expect.
Thoughts rule the world
Thought is energy, the power of which has no limits. Our universe was created by the thought of an entity that many call God. The same thought created a man who was given the power of the Creator - Thought.
Your thoughts are much stronger than you think, and every mental image is a real force that can affect your life.
Thought is energy, the power of which has no limits. Dreams always come true if a person believes in the power of his own thought. Thought + Faith = Intention. Intention is born by a thought that gives a command to the subconscious, which, in turn, begins to create the necessary conditions for the realization of thought in the physical world.
The time of the materialization of a thought depends on the speed of the thought that creates the intention. The speed of the intended person's thought depends on the amount of his personal power (Spirit) - the energy of the person's Soul. This energy is collected during a person's life through his chakras, food and air. If a person lives in harmony with the Universe, he speeds up the process of gaining energy. If a person lives inharmoniously, he loses energy.
Your world is just a reflection of yourself.Stop looking for flaws in the reflection.Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj
The universe is a projection of our own "I", our likeness, which is no more real than the reflection of our face in a mirror, but - like this reflection - has a certain form, which cannot be changed without changing ourselves. Aleister Crowley
Remember: you attract what you What do you believe and what do you think.
EVERY MOMENT IS CREATED BY YOUR THOUGHTS
You have a much more powerful ability to create and influence your life than you yourself realize. In fact, at any given moment, you are creating your life with the thoughts that you have chosen for yourself. Your thoughts and beliefs are not just internal perceptions and attitudes, but physical vibrations of energy, as real as the floor under your feet. They are the main life-creating forces that shape your being and determine what will happen in your future. Being only declared, your thoughts are the most important factor in your life, and the only one over which you have complete and comprehensive control. Yet most of us give our thoughts little, if any, attention.
All your complaints, all your problems are happening just because you think about it. They continue to manifest because your thoughts materialize, they become your reality. When you accept everything as it is, accept your identification with the physical form, your life situation can take a quantum leap. We always return to the same question. Who wants to know all this? Who says all this? Who is this storyteller? Who is the king of tragedy? Who is the questioner, who is the doubter? Look at it and it will disappear. Then all these tragedies, stories, fairy tales will disappear. You, as a person, will dissolve. Your sense of individuality, your sense of ego, will dissolve. And then you are happy. Caesar Teruel
The greatness of the world is always in accordance with the greatness of the spirit looking at it.
The good one finds his paradise here on Earth, the evil one already has his hell here.
Heinrich Heine
Lifestyle begins with a way of thinking. Everything else is tools.
What we see depends on how we look
By an effort of will, thought, it turns out that it is possible to influence the process of metabolism in a living organism, the treatment of wounds, and the growth of plants. And this parapsychological phenomenon has a name - telekinesis - "movement carried out at a distance." It can appear as a result of injuries, diseases, stress. But also these abilities can be developed in yourself. For example, it is recommended to try to "conjure" according to a certain scheme - up to the appearance of fatigue - with a glass saucer filled with water, in which a needle floats. It is believed that each such training is a step towards mastering telekinesis. By the way, there is the concept of "second wind", according to which a person at a certain moment seems to be exhausted, loses strength, but then suddenly switches to a reserve source of energy, manifested in parapsychological abilities.
In order for our life to become harmonious and beautiful, our ideas about it must be harmonious and beautiful, because everything that happens to us is rooted in the soul and from there grows outward.
If you are upset about something external, then it is not the thing itself that oppresses you, but your judgment about it. But to eliminate the latter is in your power. If something in your own mood upsets you, then who prevents you from correcting your way of thinking? Marcus Aurelius
Thoughts are the wings of the soul.Christian Nestel Bowie
Time paints the soul in the color of our thoughts. Marcus Aurelius.
Watch your thoughts - they become words.
Watch your words - they become actions.
Watch your actions - they become habits.
Watch your habits - they become character.
Watch your character - it determines your destiny.
What you managed to achieve in life, you attracted with your mind. Your efforts were preceded by a thought. The mental plan went ahead of your achievements. Orison Marden
In fact, we are surrounded by an atmosphere emitted by ourselves. Little do we realize to what extent we are psychically poisoned by the radiation of our own careless and impure thoughts. Dion Fortune
Man is a materialized thought; he is what he thinks. To change his nature from a mortal to an immortal state, he must change his way of thinking; he must stop clinging in his thoughts to that which is illusory and subject to disappearance, and cling to that which is eternal. Paracelsus
The difference between success and failure depends on what you think about most of the time. Dean Francis
