Daria Trutneva how to let in. "How to let big money into your life" Daria Trutneva

17.11.2019

Rated reviews: 5

Good day to everyone! I strongly advise you to study with Daria. you know, this is not for those who want to sit, pick their nose, and do nothing, there is a lot of information, it is extremely interesting, applicable to everyone!!! just don’t be lazy) and devote an hour of time in the evening to yourself!) (then less!)) at times!)

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Today I spent two hours on this, an hour later they explained to me that the info org was no longer there and the entrance to my personal office was abolished, then another hour for me to try to enter my personal account. As a result, the request was sent to those. the Department. Three months ago, I waited for a solution to the problem from those departments for three weeks! UPC is something interesting every five minutes a new consultant and everything in a circle!!! I can’t get into my personal account, although at the same time I enter the simulator both 1 and the second using the same email, the password has already been changed. Appeal and intelligible answer to no one. It turns out that the code I recommend to people is a technique that will always help them, I practically deceive them? Help no one!

This is the best technique for working with the subconscious, of all that I have worked with! Not for nothing - everything ingenious is simple! Without any trances, hypnosis and other dances with a tambourine. I have been doing this training for two weeks now. I can say that some results of the studies appear on the same day! Yes, only the fact that the load leaves the shoulders within a few minutes of working out is already worth a lot in itself! I will definitely buy this training from Daria for the full price as a token of gratitude for the opportunity to transform boring installations and blocks so gracefully and elegantly.

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I'm from the first stream. It's just that sometimes you don't want to write about specific numbers. I want all the good things that have changed to remain behind a closed door, from prying eyes. Excuse me, such people.
My specific result is an increase in income by 5 times (I am sitting at home on maternity leave with 2 children, one is not yet a year old), and this is not from an affiliate program, but in general from my personal business which has nothing to do with this technique.
When I accepted many qualities, relations with my mother-in-law improved. She is now reaching out to communicate with us herself, although they have not really communicated for almost 2 years. also a result.
MY MAIN RESULT was a year ago (I already knew and practiced the technique with Dasha). I really wanted to move from hiring to my apartment. For 6 months we looked at apartments, but they did not meet our requirements. we needed a good repair price and I always said that we would buy and remove the wall between the kitchen and the living room. As a result, we were asked to vacate a rented apartment, we found our apartment in 2 days, contacted not a realtor, but the owners themselves through a simple Avito. an apartment with a super renovation, in the flesh they left us a built-in kitchen, a dishwasher, a huge built-in shower. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY THERE HAVE BEEN RENOVATED AND THEY HAVE ALREADY CONNECTED THE KITCHEN AND THE LIVING ROOM.
WE MADE THE TRANSACTION IN LESS THAN A MONTH. our realtor was just shocked by how smoothly everything is going, quickly and in general how we grabbed such an apartment. he said that if he had found it, then he would have sold it for 300 thousand more.

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You write that you found an apartment with the owner, then write about the realtor

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In January, I was running a business that wasn't making a profit. My income was either completely zero or negative. And already in June we had a plus of 500,000 rubles, while we not only did not change the niche we occupied, but also did not come up with any other product!

However, this did not happen magically. It's just that we began to perform other actions, other thoughts appeared in our head. Luck came to us only after, thanks to this technique, we changed our understanding of many, many things. The unique methodology helped us to rethink very important things, to take a fresh look at the organization of business.

Daria Trutneva
How to let big money into your life

My story

My name is Trutneva Daria. I have been in business since the age of 18. My first business landscape design. But I was never completely sure that it was mine.

Our idea is the production of structures for vertical gardening with automatic watering (phytowalls). This is fantastic, exciting work.

It all started when I shared the idea of "green walls" with Antonina. And she immediately, like me, fell in love with the huge green walls of living plants.

As a result, we ourselves developed, patented and began to sell phytowalls. The process of developing and testing the design took a year. The business was practically non-profitable. Sales were small and sporadic. The income we received did not fully cover our expenses. Despite this, we did not give up and confidently moved forward. For about two years we have been engaged in a business that brings us NOTHING but joy and self-satisfaction. There were times when we decided to quit everything - it was so hard to deal with a business that takes a lot of effort and does not bring financial results. They didn’t just leave because they were together and supported each other. And they loved our brainchild - phytowalls.

We were looking for different solutions to our business problems. We understood that the product is cool, that it is definitely interesting, and therefore should be sold. But we still did not have stable sales, there were only single orders.

Of course, if not for these single orders, then perhaps we would have done away with this idea. But no. From time to time, the Universe threw us some easy successes, sometimes very pleasant ones. For example, orders from such large companies as Gazprom, MTS, Sberbank, LUKOIL.

But nevertheless, at that moment there was no question of some kind of stable business that brings income to its founders.

We intuitively felt: ALL PROBLEMS are in our SUBCONSCIOUSNESS, business is a reflection of the subconsciousness of the owner. We read and heard a lot about this, but we didn’t know how to put into practice what was spinning in our heads… In search of an answer to this question, we stumbled upon an amazing TECHNOLOGY.

We met a woman who changed our lives. I will not give her name, I will only say that the equipment transferred to us was developed for special services.

It was difficult to change. However, the result was not long in coming! Reality began to change for us.

They say that after working with a psychologist, the view of things changes, but with the right work, reality itself changes!

In January, we were in a non-profit business. Our income was either zero or negative. And already in June, the profit increased to 500,000 rubles. At the same time, we not only did not change the niche we occupied, but also did not come up with a new product!

And it didn't happen magically. We began to do other things, other thoughts appeared in our head. Thanks to this technique, we have changed the idea of many, many things. And only after that luck came to us. The unique methodology helped us to rethink very important things, to take a fresh look at the organization of business.

"Business Youth" appeared in our life. Of course, we knew about their tools for a long time, but for some reason we did not implement them until the technique appeared in our lives.

Often Petr Osipov and Mikhail Dashkiev (founders of "Business of Youth") talk about us at coaching. And it's very nice! We are really happy that "Business Youth" appeared in our lives. However, our success is primarily due to the right thoughts in our heads.

People sometimes come to "Business Youth" subconsciously blocking themselves from a positive result. Their activity is reminiscent of beating their heads against a glass wall. They see that others have a result - income, but they cannot understand why they themselves do not succeed.

That's exactly what we were until the moment when the "Scientific Method of Working with the Subconscious" appeared in our lives.

It is important to understand and accept the fact that it really works!

The technique does not carry any complex philosophy, religion, techniques, breathing exercises, or yoga. We were always looking for something more practical: there is a problem and we need to solve it. We moved to this path intuitively. And stumbled upon this technology. This technique is simple and clear.

In addition to the fact that we got such a fantastic financial result for us, we were able to successfully delegate authority in business. We went to the office only to look at the success of our team and get money. We did what we love and it was easy and enjoyable. They benefited people, they loved phytowalls very much.

We came to the following conclusion: it is not enough to know the techniques, it is necessary to change the subconscious for their successful implementation.

As a rule, thinking changes through life experience: the dishonesty of partners, the ruin of banks, the departure of experienced employees. Thus, there are conditions that push for certain actions.

You probably already know what the conscious is and what the subconscious is. You understand the need to love money, love yourself, have the right attitude towards money, have the right attitude towards yourself. But to put this knowledge into practice, to bring it to life, unfortunately, is not always easy.

I always intuitively felt: my idea of money is terrible. I started working at the age of 12, and at the age of 18 my first business appeared. But at that time there was no money.

Daria Trutneva

The book “How to let big money into your life” by D. Trutneva will help you understand what prevents you from earning a lot, what is your relationship with money and how the subconscious mind affects our financial well-being. You will get acquainted with the scientific method of working with the subconscious and learn how to make your dreams come true. The book outlines a method that will help you tune your subconscious in such a way that big money comes into your life easily!

How to let big money into your life

Daria Trutneva

ISBN 978-5-4483-1358-5

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My story

My name is Trutneva Daria. I have been in business since the age of 18. My first business is landscaping. But I was never completely sure that it was mine.

I am one of the founders of the Lafasade company. We organized this company when I was 21 years old, together with a classmate Antonina, we studied together at the Faculty of Architecture. Common trials and successes became the basis of our strong friendship.

Our idea is the production of structures for vertical gardening with automatic watering (phytowalls). This is fantastic, exciting work.

It all started when I shared the idea of vertical gardens with Antonina. And she immediately, like me, fell in love with the huge green walls of living plants.

As a result, we ourselves developed, patented and began to sell phytowalls. The process of developing and testing the design took a year. The business was practically non-profitable. Sales were small and sporadic. The income we received did not fully cover our expenses. Despite this, we did not give up. For about two years we have been engaged in a business that brings us NOTHING but joy and self-satisfaction. There were times when we decided to quit everything - it was so hard to deal with a business that takes a lot of effort and does not bring financial results. They didn’t just leave because they were together and supported each other. And they loved our brainchild - phytowalls.

We were looking for different solutions to business problems. We understood that the product is cool, that it is definitely interesting, and therefore should be sold. But we still didn’t have stable sales, there were only single orders.

But nevertheless, at that moment there was no question of some kind of stable business that brings income to its founders.

I intuitively felt: ALL PROBLEMS are in our head, business is a reflection internal state owner. I have read, heard, and searched a lot about it. Finally, towards the end of 2012, we stumbled upon a transformation tool. I was immediately very interested in the possibility of finding answers within myself. We can say that there is a puzzle. Many years of searching led to this tool, which was subsequently systematized, and a technique for working with the subconscious appeared, which I will share with you in this book.

I started, of course, with myself, since there was a specific task that I needed to solve: to finally start earning income from the business. I am grateful to the Universe, my parents, grandparents, my sister and, of course, my man for opening up an amazing method with which you can really control your reality, no matter how loud it sounds.

It was difficult to change. Especially because when I applied it on myself, in parallel I was engaged in the systematization of the tool itself. However, the result was not long in coming! Reality began to change.

They say that after working with a psychologist, the outlook on things changes, but I wanted my reality, the facts, to change! I wanted to easily achieve the result that I dreamed of. Through easy pleasant actions, and not through "tin".

In January, we were in a non-profit business. Our income was either zero or negative. And already in June, the profit increased to 500,000 rubles. At the same time, we did not change the niche we occupied, did not abandon our product!

And it didn't happen magically. We began to do other things, other thoughts appeared in our heads. Thanks to this technique, we have changed the idea of many, many things. When we changed the attitudes in our own subconscious regarding business, clients, partners, employees, and most importantly, money, absolutely amazing results appeared in reality.

Of course, I knew about those business tools that we ended up using in business for a long time, but due to internal resistance money did not introduce them.

As soon as there were changes in the subconscious, life changed. We launched a landing - a one-page site. The result is a conversion of 30%! There were a large number of applications. Developed terms and conditions for franchising. When we hired a commercial director, we had no idea if we could pay for his work at the end of the month. And in the first month he made a profit of 300,000 rubles! If anyone has experienced finding and hiring a sales manager, then you know how difficult it is usually to find a more or less acceptable candidate. After working with the subconscious, we found this person from one ad on a free site. With one call. From one interview. I got into a flowing state where everything was easy.

That was incredible! We have achieved amazing results for us - two fragile girls - in business: plus 500,000 rubles! In just two months!

People who subconsciously fence themselves off from a positive result often come to business trainings. Their activity is reminiscent of beating their heads against a glass wall. They see that others have a result - income, but they cannot understand why they themselves do not succeed.

That's exactly what I was up to the moment I started using the technique of working with the subconscious.

This technique is purely practical. To use its tools, you do not need any special knowledge in philosophy, religion, techniques, breathing exercises, yoga. I was always looking for something more practical: there is a problem - there is a solution. This has always been a fundamental factor for me.

We came to the following conclusion: it is not enough to know business technologies, it is necessary to change the subconscious for their successful implementation.

As a rule, thinking changes through life experience: the dishonesty of partners, the ruin of banks, the departure of experienced employees. Thus, conditions arise that push for certain

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deeds.

I intuitively felt: my idea of money is terrible. I started working at the age of 12, and at the age of 18 my first business appeared. But at that time there was no money.

A businessman is a person who declares to the whole world: "I carry out activities for the sake of profit." But even such a person may have an inappropriate idea about money in the subconscious.

That is why I now understand how important it is to work with the subconscious.

How do you usually achieve results?

There are two fundamentally different ways to achieve results in life. They do not contradict each other, but most often we use only one of them.

The first way is to achieve results with the help of willpower. This method involves the need to constantly overcome obstacles on the way to the goal.

The second way is the streaming state. This is when success comes easily and naturally. You are in the right place and right time. You suddenly start to come up with simple and ingenious solutions that you have not noticed before. And the result comes by itself. In this book, I will teach you to enter into such a state.

We have been accustomed to using the first way to achieve success since childhood. We often hear: you can’t even catch a fish from a pond without difficulty, you feed your wolf’s legs, if you like to ride, love to carry sleds, etc.

Most executives and businessmen, striving for success, resort to strong-willed efforts. But, unfortunately, this method does not always work effectively.

For example, you talk about the desire to have a lot of money and start doing business. A lot of money is the desire of your consciousness. But several years pass, and the business does not bring serious income. The fact is that subconsciously you ... do not want money.

What do you do about it? Turn on willpower. You begin to force yourself to get up early in the morning, “build” employees, shift the lion's share of responsibilities onto yourself (because you think that you will do the job best of all).

All these actions can be of considerable benefit, but do not always work for a long time. Willpower, declarations, goal setting are resource techniques that sooner or later put you in a state of stress.

There are other ways to achieve success. How - read on.

Who is this method not suitable for?

The first thing I say to people who want to get acquainted with this technology is: "This method of working on yourself is not suitable for everyone."

Try right now to honestly answer one serious question: “Am I able to accept the fact that everything that happens to me, manifests itself in my reality, is the result of my own subconscious desires?”

I thought for a long time how I was so lucky and I survived. He told everyone that he was born in a shirt.

But only now I realized why I subconsciously wanted to be in an accident. At that moment I had a business with friends with whom I did not want to work further. But I couldn't tell them. If we put on fictitious scales the fact that I will tell them this, and a head-on collision with a KamAZ, I choose an accident. So I didn't want to tell them about it. He took it as a betrayal on my part.

I understand that I created problems for myself on purpose. For half a year I was overwhelmed with thoughts: “Why is God so angry with me?”. But now the realization of this situation has come to me. ”

Analyzing and understanding the causes of certain events is very important. When you learn to understand the reason for the events taking place in your life, you will be able to control your own reality.

The most interesting thing is that if my friend could transform his attitude (and it sounded something like this: “Telling my partners that I don’t want to work with them anymore means betraying them”), then he would not need an accident, and he would never get into it.

You can shape and manage your reality the way you want it. But for this it is necessary to convey to your consciousness one important thought. Everything that is present in your life is your subconscious desires. And you have reasons to want just that.

If you agree with this statement, this book is for you.

What is money?

What is money for most of us? Money is a matter on which we shift the responsibility for everything that is not in our life.

For example, a person says to himself and to everyone around him: “I dream of traveling so much.” But for some reason he doesn't travel. The question arises: "Why?". The man himself answers this question in this way: “I don’t travel because I don’t have money.”

But really, if travel is a dream on a conscious level, if a person really wants to travel, then first of all, you need to break the strong logical connection “money - travel”. Why? Because this is the real self-deception: "I don't travel because I don't have money." Very convenient self-deception! And, what is most interesting, we surround almost all our dreams and aspirations with such self-deceptions.

Money is a universal matter, on which we shift the responsibility for our unfulfilled desires to one degree or another. That is why we all unanimously affirm to ourselves and others: “I really need money, if I don’t have money, I can’t do anything.”

QUIZ: What image of money do you have?

I do this test at every master class I do because it is quite revealing.

Put a bill in front of you, preferably the largest of those that you have in your wallet.

Close your eyes, relax. Imagine it's a person.

Now answer seven questions:

What is he?

Which one are you?

What is he doing?

What are you doing?

How does he treat you?

How do you feel about him?

And what happens if he disappears?

Write down the answers on a piece of paper and set it aside.

At the master class, the test goes something like this:

Raise your hands now those who earn more than a hundred thousand. Get on stage.

Is there anyone who

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Is everything really bad with money? Who thinks that he earns little? It really should be small, less than 10-15 thousand. There are such? Come out, who thinks that he earns little.

Now we are doing the exercise all together. These are just the people we'll be looking at. You can do the same for yourself and write down your feelings.

- What is he?

- I imagined a slender girl with long black hair in a white dress, she smiles. What am I? I feel like I'm a little out of touch with her.

- What did she do?

She went to beauty salons.

– What did you do?

- I earned money to also go to beauty salons.

- Now answer the question. If she leaves your life, how will you feel?

- There will be another, the same.

And it's amazing. If your answers are similar to this, you are doing well with the perception of money. But not perfect. Now let me give you a completely different example:

- What is he?

- This is such a character as from the movie "The Lord of the Rings", hissing Gollum.

If he disappears, I'll be glad.

What do you think, what is the financial situation of this girl? That's right, everything is much more complicated with her money.

People with different material wealth always have different ideas about money. And most often people who are doing well with money do not understand at all how this character (bill) can leave their life. If a person regrets the money that is gone, this is already alarming. Such answers suggest that the human subconscious is afraid of the very suggestion that money can leave his life.

One of my friends once asked me: “Is everything okay with my money?”. I answered her like this: “If you don’t have a personal plane and a personal island yet, then you can and should change your idea of \u200b\u200bmoney.” It is obvious that any person always has a way to change and where to grow.

I want to give examples of different people in order to prove that the difference in their reality is completely motivated by the differences in their thinking. In other words, if a person manages to change the idea of money, success and business in his own mind, then reality itself is guaranteed to change for him. At the same time, you have no idea how quickly this happens.

For example, a person with money is all right.

He says:

“Money for me is soldiers. A newcomer has arrived, a soldier.

- What are you doing? What is he doing?

- I tell him: “I fell, I did push-ups”, he does push-ups.

“What happens if he disappears?”

The new one is coming...

While taking the test about the perception of money, mark for yourself who you saw: a positive person or a negative one? It can be not only a person, it can be anything, absolutely any image. The most important thing is the feeling you experienced. It is nothing but your idea of money. Even if you are used to thinking that you think differently about money. Even if you assured yourself and others that you love money.

This image is your sincere idea of money. And it is with this image that you need to work so that money appears in your reality as easily as you want it. This is the area of your subconscious that needs to be changed, adjusted in such a way that there really is more money in your life, much more.

With all of the above, I want to show you one interesting thing: your success, your results and your money (if we take money as a result of human activity) do not depend on how much you work. Your success depends primarily on whether you subconsciously want it.

What do you really want?

Do you think you want money? What do you really want? Why do you need money?

Money is needed so that our life is filled with a large number of various purchases, from the acquisition of which we become happy. And happiness (or harmony) is a combination of three elements: money, development and love.

This is the theme of the book, because no one needs money by itself.

At the moment, we have packaged the technique for working with the subconscious into an online product that absolutely anyone with an Internet connection can use. This product is called the Master Kit. I do follow-up once a week where I answer people's questions about this technique in their personal account. There, I often describe happiness as a combination of three elements: money, love, and purpose.

I usually draw happiness as a dollar, a ladder and a heart.

A dollar is matter: a car, an apartment, clothes, physical health.

A heart is love for a man / woman, family, acceptance of you by other people, love for other people. That is, everything that you understand by love is here.

And if all this is not in our life, then no money and no development will give us a feeling of real happiness. There will be no harmony.

And the ladder is spiritual growth. Also here should be attributed the second component of health - spiritual health. But, even if there is growth, but there is no money and love, unfortunately, there will be no happiness either.

Think now, what do you usually choose from these three areas for yourself?

When a person cannot say to himself: “Yes, I am happy,” he purposefully refuses one of these three elements. A person can give up love for the sake of money, or money for the sake of love, or love for the sake of development (there may be other options, but the main thing is that one of the three elements is missing from the priorities of a person).

For example, my business partner, my friend, answered this question quite clearly: “I gave up love and growth for the sake of money.” At that moment she had a Porsche Boxter, a Porsche Cayenne and a house of 600 sq. m. But if you asked her if she was happy, she would definitely tell you that she is not.

I always chose a short flight of stairs (growth). Why do I need love, it will distract me, I thought. I had a family, but there was no love in this family. Height was everything to me. Spiritual development, books - that's all I needed. Money, love, it doesn't matter. Money generally interferes with spiritual development, I thought. These were my attitudes in life, my priorities. Such priorities are common to many people.

Now I think in a completely different way, because money in my current understanding can in no way interfere with spiritual development.

One more example. My sister answered this question quite clearly for herself when I introduced her to this technique: “I refuse money, I refuse growth, I don’t need anything. I need Love. Family, love. For my family to be well. But money in the family interferes with me, and the ladder, symbolizing spiritual growth, too. You can lose love because of money and development.”

But were any of the three of us happy? We personified three categories of people, life priorities which were focused on one of the three components of success.

No. None of us were happy. Because happiness is when a person has all three priorities at the same time. We were faced with the task of urgently revising our life attitudes, breaking the stereotypes rooted in our minds such as “money interferes with the family”, or “money interferes spiritually

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develop”, or “spiritual growth interferes with money”. Harmonization of the three priority principles is the fundamental thing, the result to which it is necessary to strive.

Why do we work with our own subconscious? Not even for a house by the ocean. Of course we want it, but most of all we want happiness. We just think that a big house by the ocean will give us happiness. I affirm that the house does not guarantee happiness, but, most importantly, HE WILL NOT INTERFERE WITH HAPPINESS.

And the fact that a chic house by the sea can interfere with happiness, almost everyone believes. All people who do not have a home by the ocean think that having one can somehow miraculously interfere with the formation of their happy life. This complex, embedded in a person at a subconscious level, is essentially nothing more than a myth.

Each person has their own excuse for not owning a home by the ocean. For one, it will be the fear of being robbed, for the second - the fear of loneliness, for the third - the envy of others. The essence of my method is to find in yourself and transform the position on this (or any similar) issue. Only by changing our attitude to life, we will change life itself.

TEST: What is more important - soul or money?

When choosing between soul and money, think about what is more important to you? Write your answer on paper.

Whatever you choose, soul or money, the answer is fundamentally wrong.

And there can only be one correct answer:

Soul and money are inseparable things, since a person is both of these components together. A person has a soul, and there is matter - his body. If we give up money (matter), we also give up the body.

When people say: “Money is not important to me”, this analogy always pops up in my head: a mother with a child. Frost minus 30. They put her right on the street, without clothes, without anything. And no matter how much you pray for the soul of a child, he will not survive. So do we really need money?

No, for a full life, a person needs a balance between the material and spiritual components. These are inseparable things. Unfortunately or fortunately, we live in Russia - in a country where spirituality is one of the fundamental values for a person. The postulate that the soul is more important than money, we absorbed with mother's milk and learned for life.

I do not presume to say whether this is bad or good. We just need to understand that if God created us with bodies, then this is necessary for something. In my opinion, now the denial of matter is pseudo-spirituality.

If you had asked me earlier what is more important for me - material wealth or spiritual, I would have answered: "Of course, the soul." I would shout about it: “The main thing is the soul, what money can there be?! What does money have to do with it? You don't need money at all!" Even though I was in business.

This is a very common misconception. The myth that money is in fact not happiness for us, which everyone around is shouting about, is deeply rooted in the minds of many Russian people. Meanwhile, the carriers of this ideology are under constant stress from the fact that the entire society and the entire surrounding reality are literally shouting to them about the opposite.

Things were different in the Soviet Union than in modern Russia. Soviet people unanimously believed that money is bad, and a gestalt was formed in the subconscious of a modern Russian: “Money is evil.” Of course, there were also people in Soviet times who aspired to be rich and have money. But the majority of the population sincerely considered the pursuit of money a priority for greedy people who think only about their own gain.

Modern Russian society has radically changed this view. However, our subconscious mind continues to give us information that money is bad. And in this situation, there really is a need to change something.

Two main questions: why and why?

What question do you ask yourself when something unpleasant happens in your life?

Of course, "Why did this happen?".

By asking this question, we relieve ourselves of responsibility - it is much easier to shift the blame for the situation to invisible forces. But try asking yourself a question of a completely different order: “Why did this happen?” (remember the case with KamAZ?).

Why are you doing this, and not why it happened. Why is the answer of consciousness, justification to itself. Why is the answer of the subconscious. Why is an excuse, why is the root cause. Yes, the answer can often seem strange, funny, delusional. And that's okay. If this answer suited your consciousness, then there would be no unpleasant situation. Or rather, you would not perceive it as unpleasant.

When we have some ideas in our consciousness, and completely different ones in our subconscious, there is the cognitive dissonance leading to unawareness of what is happening and stress. For example, we consciously want to go to work, we know that if we don’t go, we won’t finish the project on time. And subconsciously we want to relax. What are we doing? We are sick. Otherwise, we do not give ourselves a rest!

Only by knowing the answer and accepting it, you can influence the problem. Just to influence! Don't look at it differently.

TEST: WHY OR WHY

Divide the sheet into three columns and three rows.

In the second column write why they happened.

In the third column, write WHY did they happen? How did these situations benefit you?

Be as true to yourself as possible. When you find the answer "why" - you will experience a feeling of insight, accompanied by unpleasant sensations. But don't you dare blame yourself for this answer!

Mindfulness is responsibility without guilt.

Mindfulness - responsibility without guilt

When a person has responsibility for how his life develops, when he understands that every day he lives is the result of his desires, he must learn to protect himself from feelings of guilt.

Society tells us: we must be responsible for what we have in our lives. But at the same time, responsibility is associated with a sense of guilt for what happened (or what is happening).

The most important difference in my methodology is that I will strictly forbid you to blame yourself. Remember, I wrote that money is a universal matter on which we shift the responsibility?

Why do you think? That's right, don't blame yourself.

It is easier for us to say that money is to blame (or rather, their absence, real or imaginary). At the same time, if we want big money, it certainly seems to us that this is not normal. We do not think that we have our own reasons for this. We always have reasons.

“I don’t have money because I can’t set up the sales department in any way, or the boss doesn’t want to raise it, or even because I spend little time on work, or, on the contrary, I spend all the time, there is no time to earn money.”

These excuses are very convenient, first of all, for themselves, because they relieve a person of guilt.

The main thing is to understand this formula: responsibility without guilt. Society pushes us to blame. All those institutions where we are told that we need to ask for forgiveness from ourselves, from everyone, we need to erase negative attitudes and fears from ourselves, we need to pray for forgiveness from our parents - what do they want from us?

They want to prove to us that we are at fault. In fact, it doesn't exist. Why

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No? Our life is the choice of our own subconscious. The subconscious, by definition, cannot do wrong. It cannot want the wrong things. It's just that your subconscious mind has other criteria.

That's what mindfulness is - it's responsibility without guilt.

Why no guilt? Because in fact a person immediately, as soon as he recognizes his attitude, has a feeling: “Well, why am I such a fool? Why did I think the rich were bad?

The feeling of guilt for one's own wealth works for almost all Russian people. When you see that from the point of view of consciousness you thought somehow wrong, you can say at one moment: “How do I feel about money like that? It's terrible!"

Especially if you were told: “Money is good. Money is good." Now I will tell you: "Money is good."

Or we will all start doing auto-training and repeat: “Money is good. Money is wonderful." What will it eventually lead to? And this will lead to the fact that your guilt will grow exponentially.

And why is it bad? Because by blaming yourself and your actions, you reject and deny yourself. You say that it is impossible to be like this, and ... you lose the ability to control reality.

Our individual qualities: why do we need them?

Each of us has a complex of traits that characterizes the human individuality. This is what distinguishes us from others. Very often we do not accept these qualities in ourselves.

For example, some men do not accept weakness in themselves. One young man who studied with me saw the image of his weakness in this way: he is the leader of the army, but at the same time he is weak, because he does not want to put himself at risk by fighting the enemy.

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My name is Trutneva Daria. I have been in business since the age of 18. My first business is landscaping. But I was never completely sure that it was mine.

Our idea is the production of structures for vertical gardening with automatic watering (phytowalls). This is fantastic, exciting work.

It all started when I shared the idea of "green walls" with Antonina. And she immediately, like me, fell in love with the huge green walls of living plants.

But nevertheless, at that moment there was no question of some kind of stable business that brings income to its founders.

We met a woman who changed our lives. I will not give her name, I will only say that the equipment transferred to us was developed for special services.

It was difficult to change. However, the result was not long in coming! Reality began to change for us.

They say that after working with a psychologist, the view of things changes, but with the right work, reality itself changes!

“Business Youth” appeared in our life. Of course, we knew about their tools for a long time, but for some reason we did not implement them until the technique appeared in our lives.

That was incredible! We have achieved amazing results for us - two fragile girls - in business: a delta plus 500,000 rubles! In just two months!

Often Petr Osipov and Mikhail Dashkiev (the founders of the Business of Youth) talk about us during coaching sessions. And it's very nice! We are really happy that "Business Youth" appeared in our lives. However, our success is primarily due to the right thoughts in our heads.

That's what we were until the moment when the "Scientific Method of Working with the Subconscious" appeared in our lives.

It is important to understand and accept the fact that it really works!

We came to the following conclusion: it is not enough to know the techniques, it is necessary to change the subconscious for their successful implementation.

As a rule, thinking changes through life experience: the dishonesty of partners, the ruin of banks, the departure of experienced employees. Thus, there are conditions that push for certain actions.

I always intuitively felt: my idea of money is terrible. I started working at the age of 12, and at the age of 18 my first business appeared. But at that time there was no money.

A businessman is a person who declares to the whole world: I carry out activities for profit. But even such a person may have an inappropriate idea about money in the subconscious. That is why I now understand how important it is to work with the subconscious.

How do you usually achieve results?

There are two fundamentally different ways to achieve results in life. They do not contradict each other, but most often we use only one of them.

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My story 11

What is money? sixteen

Why is it important to accept EVERYTHING in yourself, and most importantly HOW? 24

Lazy, loser, greedy? 26

Rich man, what are you? 28

What are desires? 29

How to make dreams come true? 31

What is a setup? 34

Where do installations come from? 35

Why are emotions needed? 36

Stages of transformation 47

Your way and money 49

Life in high 50

My story 11

How do you usually get results? 14

Who is this method not suitable for? 15

What is money? sixteen

What do you really want? eighteen

Two main questions: why and why? 21

Mindfulness - responsibility without guilt 21

Our individual qualities, why do we need them? 23

Why is it important to accept EVERYTHING in yourself, and most importantly HOW? 24

Lazy, loser, greedy? 26

Rich man, what are you? 28

What are desires? 29

Cravings and Creation 30

How to make dreams come true? 31

How is your reality created? 32

Are you in control of your reality? 34

What is a setup? 34

Where do installations come from? 35

Why are emotions needed? 36

Why is it difficult to work on yourself? 40

How to transform the installation? 42

Transforming relationships with parents 43

Finding the reason for inaction 43

What needs to be worked out? 45

What is the most important thing in this technique? 45

How to instill "good" attitudes in children? 46

Duality: parents and me 46

Stages of transformation 47

Your way and money 49

Love and development, and dislike for oneself - an incentive for development 50

Life in high 50

Appendix: working out scheme Letting big money into our lives 51

My story

My name is Trutneva Daria.

I am the founder of Lafa-garden". We organized this company when I was 21 years old with a classmate, with whom we studied together at the Faculty of Architecture. Common ordeals and successes became the basis of our strong friendship. We were engaged in a fantastically beautiful and exciting business - the production of phytowalls (structures for vertical gardening )

When I came to Antonina with this idea, she immediately, like me, fell in love with the huge green walls of living plants with automatic watering.

As a result, we ourselves developed, patented and began to sell phytowalls. This took us a year. But the business did not bring any profit. Of course, there were sales, but they were not systematic. And, accordingly, they could not fully cover our expenses. But, despite this, we did not give up and confidently moved forward. For about 2 years we were engaged in a business that did not bring us ANYTHING. In addition to joy and self-satisfaction.

There were times when we decided to quit everything - it was so hard to do business that, in principle, does not bring financial results, and we have to work on it a lot! They didn’t just leave because they were together and supported each other. And they loved phytowalls very much.

We were looking for different solutions to our business problems. We understood that the product was cool, that it was definitely interesting, and, therefore, should be bought. But we have stable sales still was not, there were only single orders.

Of course, if these single orders did not exist, maybe we would have abandoned all this. But no, from time to time the Universe gave us some easy successes, sometimes even very pleasant ones. For example, orders from GAZPROM and MTS, SBERBANK and LUKOIL.

Nevertheless, at that moment there was no question of any normal stable business that brought at least a salary to its founder.

We intuitively felt: EVERYTHING IS IN THE HEAD, we read about it a lot, many people talked about it, but we didn’t know how to put into practice what was spinning in our head ... In search of an answer to this question, we stumbled upon an amazing TECHNOLOGY.

We met a woman who changed our lives. I will not give her name, I will only say that the equipment that she handed over to us was developed for the special services.

It was difficult to change.But the result was not long in coming. Reality began to change for me. Many say that after working with a psychologist, the outlook on things changes, but with the right work, reality itself undergoes changes!

However, this did not happen magically. It's just that we began to perform other actions, other thoughts appeared in our head. Luck came to us only after, thanks to this technique, we changed our understanding of many, many things. A unique methodology helped us rethink very important things, take a fresh look at business organization.

Business Youth has appeared in our life. Of course, we knew about their tools for a long time, but for some reason they were not implemented. Until a technique appeared in our life.

As soon as there were changes in the head, they appeared in life. We launched a one-page site, the result is a conversion of 30%! We were overwhelmed by the large number of applications and packed franchise phytowalls. When we hired the Commercial Director, we had no idea how we would pay him a salary at the end of the month. And he immediately sold our franchises!

That was incredible! We have achieved amazing results for us - two fragile girls - in business: a delta plus 500,000 rubles in just 2 months

Very often Petr Osipov and Mikhail Dashkiev talk about us during coaching sessions. And it's very nice! We are really happy that Business Youth has appeared in our lives. However, our success is primarily due to the right thoughts in our heads.

Sometimes people come to Business Youth who subconsciously fence themselves off from a positive result. The activity of these people is reminiscent of banging their heads against a glass wall. They really see that many others have a delta and a result. But they do not understand why they themselves do not have the result.

That's what we were until the moment when in our lives appeared Scientific Method Works with the Subconscious.

Why is she scientific? I will talk about this below. For now, the most important thing for us is to understand and accept the fact that it really works!

The technique does not carry any complex philosophy, religion, techniques, breathing exercises, or yoga. This is all great, of course, but we were always looking for something more practical: "There is a problem, and we want to solve it." This is what distinguishes this method from all others.

In addition to the fact that we had such a fantastic financial result for us, we were able to successfully delegate business. We went to the office only to look at the success of our team and get money. We were doing what we loved, and it was easy and enjoyable. We benefited people, we loved phytowalls very much, and it was felt!

What we understood in the end: it’s not enough to know the techniques, you need to change something in your head in order to start successfully implementing them.

You can change your thinking through life itself and its harsh reality: when partners set up, banks go bankrupt, employees quit. A person finds himself in such conditions that he simply cannot do anything.

You probably already know what the conscious mind is and what the subconscious mind is. Probably everyone knows that you need to love money, love yourself, have the right attitude towards money, have the right attitude towards yourself. But to put this knowledge into practice, to bring it to life, unfortunately, is not always easy.

I always intuitively felt that my idea of money was probably too terrible. I have been working since the age of 12, and since the age of 18 I have already started my own business. However, I didn't have any money back then.

A businessman is a person who declares to the whole world: I carry out activities for profit. But even such a person may have an inappropriate idea of money in his subconscious. That is why I now understand how important it is to work with the head.

Daria Trutneva "How to let big money into your life" so that big money comes into your life easily
How do you usually get results?

There are two fundamentally different ways to achieve results in life. They do not contradict each other, but most often we use only one of them.

The first way is to achieve results with the help of willpower. This technique involves the need to constantly overcome obstacles on the way to the goal.

The second way is the streaming state. This is when success comes easily and naturally. When you are in the right place

place and at the right time. When you suddenly start to come up with simple and ingenious solutions that for some reason you didn’t notice before. And the result comes as if by itself. In this book, I will teach you how to easily enter this state.

We have been accustomed to using the first way to achieve success since childhood. Even proverbs and sayings, fairy tales and epics, on which we were brought up, vied with each other to teach us this: “You can’t even catch a fish from a pond without labor”, “The legs feed the wolf”, “If you like to ride, love to carry sleds”, etc.

Most executives and businessmen, striving for success, resort to strong-willed efforts. Men are used to achieving everything through wrestling. This is not bad, but, unfortunately, this method does not always work effectively.

For example, a person says that he wants a lot of money and starts doing business. A lot of money is the desire of his consciousness. But 2 years pass, and his business does not begin to bring serious income. The bottom line is that subconsciously a person ... does not want money. I know why he doesn't want them, but I'll talk about that a bit later.

What does a person do with it? Includes willpower. He begins to force himself to get up early in the morning, drills employees, shifts the lion's share of responsibilities to himself, because, in his opinion, no one will do the job better than him.

All these actions can be of great benefit, they all work, but almost always they do not work for long. Willpower, declarations, goal setting are resource techniques that sooner or later put us in a state of stress.

But there are other ways to achieve success. What? Read on.

Who is this method not suitable for?

When people come to me for personal study, the first thing I tell them is that my method is not suitable for everyone.

Try right now to honestly answer one serious question for yourself: “Are you able to accept the fact that everything that happens to you, everything that manifests in your reality, is nothing but the result of your own desires?

I will tell you one interesting story. In Perm, I had one friend, we worked with him according to this method. He came to our seminar and right during the exercise he stood up and told us his story:

Only now I understand why I deliberately wanted to be in an accident. At that moment, I was in business with people I didn't want to do business with anymore. But I couldn't tell them. If we put on a fictitious scale that I will tell them this and that I will get into a head-on collision with a KAMAZ truck, I would one hundred percent choose an accident, so I did not want to tell them about it.

And now I clearly understand that I created problems for myself on purpose. For half a year I was tormented by the thought of why God is so angry with me. But now I understand why I needed it.”

So, the analysis and understanding of the causes of certain events is very important. If you learn to understand the reason for the events that happen in your life, this will be a huge step towards managing your own reality and your own life.

The most interesting thing is that if my acquaintance from Perm could transform his attitude (and it sounded something like this: “Telling my partners that I don’t want to work with them anymore means betraying them”), he would not need an accident and he would would never hit her.

You can sculpt, shape your reality, manage it the way you want it. But for this you must convey to your consciousness one single thought. Everything in your life is what you subconsciously want, and you have reasons to want it.

If you agree with this statement, this book is for you.

What is money?

What is money for most of us? Money is a matter on which we blame the responsibility for everything that is not in our life.

For example, a person says to himself and to everyone around him: “I dream of traveling so much. I have dreamed of traveling all my life. But for some reason he doesn't travel.

The question is why? The man himself answers this question like this: "I don't travel because I don't have money."

But really, if travel is a dream on a conscious level, if a person really wants to travel, then first of all, you need to break the strong logical connection: "money - travel." Why? Because this is the real self-deception: "I don't travel because I don't have money." Very convenient self-deception! And what is most interesting, we surround almost all our dreams and aspirations with such self-deceptions.

Money is a universal matter, on which we, to one degree or another, shift the responsibility for our unfulfilled desires. That is why we all unanimously affirm to ourselves and others: “I really need money, and that is why I do not allow myself to spend it in an infinite amount.”

Daria Trutneva "How to let big money into your life"QUIZ: what image of money do you have?

I do this test at every master class I do because it is quite revealing. I will definitely tell you why, but a little later. To get started, take the test itself right now:

Place a bill in front of you, preferably the largest one you have in your wallet.

Close your eyes, relax. Imagine it's a person.

Now answer 7 questions:

What is he?
What are you like?
What is he doing?
What are you doing?
How does he treat you?
How do you feel about him?
And what happens if he disappears?

Write down the answers on a piece of paper and set it aside.

At the master class, the test goes something like this:

Raise your hands now those who earn more than a hundred thousand. Get on stage. Who else? No one? Okay, over eighty. There is? Come out. Is there anyone who is really bad with money? Who thinks that he earns little? It really should be small, less than 10-15 thousand. There are such? Come out, who thinks that he earns little.

Now we are doing the exercise all together. These are just the people we'll be looking at. You can also do this for yourself and write down your feelings.

What is he?

I imagined a slender girl with long black hair in a white dress, smiling.

What am I? I feel like I'm a little out of touch with her.

What did she do? She went to beauty salons.

What did you do?
I earned money to also go to beauty salons.

Now answer the question. If she leaves your life, how will you feel?

Another one will appear, just like it.

And it's amazing. If your answers are similar to this, you are doing well with the perception of money. Now let me give you a completely different example:

What is he?

This is such a character as from the movie "Lord of the Rings", such a hissing, Golum.

If he disappears, I will be glad.

What do you think, what is the financial situation of this girl? That's right, everything is much more complicated with her money.

One of my friends once asked me: “Is everything okay with my money?” I answered her like this: “If you don’t have a personal plane and a personal island yet, then you can and should change and change your idea of money.” It is obvious that any person will always find in which direction to change and where to grow.

I want to show you different people here in order to prove that the difference in their reality is completely motivated by the difference in their thinking. In other words, if a person manages to change the idea of money, success and business in his own mind, then for

this person is guaranteed to change reality itself. And you have no idea how fast it happens.

Let me give you one more example. The man is also good with money.

He says:

Money for me is a soldier. A newcomer has arrived, a soldier.

What are you doing?
What is he doing?
I tell him: “I fell, I did push-ups,” he does push-ups.
What happens if he disappears?
The new one will come...

During the money perception test, mark for yourself who you saw: a positive person or a negative one? It can be not only a person, it can be anything, absolutely any image. The most important thing is the feeling that you experienced. It is nothing but your idea of money. Even if you are used to thinking that you think differently about money. Even if you assured yourself and others that you love money.

With all of the above, I want to explain one interesting thing to you. Your success, your results and your money (if we take money as a result of human activity) does not depend on how much you work. Your success depends primarily on how much you want it subconsciously.

What do you really want?

Do you think you want money? What do you really want? What do you need money for?

This is the theme of this book, because no one needs money by itself.

At my trainings and master classes, I usually draw happiness as a combination of elements: a dollar, a ladder or a heart. A dollar is matter: a car, an apartment, clothes, health (physical, body).

A heart is a family, acceptance of you by other people, love for other people. That is, everything that you understand by love is all here.

And if all this is not in our life, then no money and no development will give us a feeling of real happiness. There will be no harmony.

And the ladder is spiritual growth. Also here should be attributed the second component of health - spiritual health. But even if there is growth, but there is no money and love, unfortunately, there will be no happiness either.

Think now, what do you usually choose from these three areas for yourself?

If a person cannot say to himself: “Yes, I am happy,” he usually deliberately refuses one of these three elements. A person can give up love for the sake of money or money for the sake of love, or love for the sake of development (there may be other options, but the main thing is that one of the three elements is missing in the priorities of a person).

For example, my business partner, my friend, answered this question quite clearly: “I give up love and growth for the sake of money.” She had at that moment Porsche Boxter, Porsche Cayenne and a house of 600 sq. m. But if you asked her if she was happy, she would have told you quite clearly that she was not.

I always chose a short flight of stairs (growth). Why do I need love, it will distract me, I thought. I had a family, but there was no love in this family. Height was everything to me. Spiritual development, books - all this was necessary for me. Money, love, it doesn't matter. Money generally hinders spiritual development. These were my attitudes in life, my priorities. Such priorities are common to many people.

Now I think in a completely different way, because money in my current understanding can in no way interfere with spiritual development.

One more example. My sister quite clearly answered this question for herself when we started working on this technique: “I refuse money, I refuse stairs, I don’t need anything. I need Love. Family, love. For my family to be well. But money in the family interferes with me, and the ladder, which symbolizes spiritual growth, too. You can lose love because of money and development.”

But were any of the three of us happy? We personified three categories of people whose life priorities were concentrated on one of the three components of success.

No. None of us were happy. Because happiness is when a person has all three priorities at the same time. We were faced with the task of urgently reviewing our life attitudes, breaking the stereotypes rooted in our minds of the plan “money hinders the family” or “money hinders spiritual development”, or “spiritual growth hinders money”. Harmonization of the three priority principles is the fundamental thing, the result to which one must strive.

Why are we working on ourselves? Not even for a house by the ocean. Of course we want it, but most of all we want happiness. We just think that a big house by the ocean will give us happiness. I say that the house does not guarantee happiness, but most importantly - HE WILL NOT INTERFERE WITH HAPPINESS.

And the fact that a rich house by the sea can interfere with happiness is felt by almost everyone. All people who do not have a home by the ocean have in their heads the mindset that its presence can somehow miraculously interfere with the formation of their happy life. This complex, embedded in a person at a subconscious level, is essentially nothing more than a myth.

TEST: What is more important soul or money?

When choosing between soul and money, think about what is more important to you? Write your answer on paper.

Whatever you choose, soul or money, the answer is fundamentally wrong.

And there can only be one correct answer:

Soul and money are things that cannot be separated, since a person is these two components together. A person has a soul, and there is a matter of his body. If we refuse money (matter)

we also give up the body.

When people say: “money is not important to me”, this analogy always pops up in my head. Mother with a child. Minus 30. They put her right on the street, without clothes, without anything. And no matter how much a mother prays for the soul of her child, he will not survive. So do we really need money?

I do not presume to say whether this is bad or good. We just need to understand that spirituality is our initial data with which we live and will live.

If you had asked me earlier what is more important for me - material wealth or spiritual development, I would have answered: "of course, the soul." I would shout about it, the main thing is the soul, what kind of money can there be? ! And what about the money here? You don't need money at all! Even though I was a businessman.

This is a very common misconception. The myth that money is not, in fact, happiness for us, which everyone around is shouting about, is deeply rooted in the minds of many people. Meanwhile, the carriers of this ideology are under constant stress from the fact that the entire society and the entire surrounding reality is literally screaming at them about the opposite.

In the Soviet Union, things were different than in modern Russia. The Soviet people unanimously believed that money is bad, and a gestalt was formed in the subconscious of the modern Russian: "money is evil." Of course, there were Soviet time people who really wanted to be rich and have money. But the majority of the population sincerely considered the pursuit of money a priority for greedy and unbalanced people.

Modern Russian society has radically changed this view. However, our subconscious continues to give us information that money is bad. And in this situation, there really is a need to change something.

Two main questions: why and why?

What question do you usually ask yourself when something unpleasant happens in your life?

Of course, “Why did this happen?”.

Because by asking this question, we sort of relieve ourselves of responsibility - it is much easier to shift the blame for the situation onto invisible forces. But try to ask yourself a question of a completely different order: why did this happen? (remember the case with KAMAZ?)

Why do you do it, not why it happened. Why is the answer of consciousness, justification to itself. Why - the answer of the subconscious. Why is an excuse, why is the root cause. Yes, the answer can often seem strange, funny, delusional. And that's okay. If your consciousness suited this answer, then there would be no unpleasant situation. Or rather, you would not perceive it as unpleasant.

When we have certain ideas in our consciousness, and completely different ideas in our subconscious, cognitive dissonance arises, leading to unconsciousness of what is happening and stress. For example, we consciously want to go to work, we know that if we don't go, we won't finish the project on time. And subconsciously we want to relax. What are we doing? We are sick. Otherwise, we do not give ourselves a rest!

Only by knowing the answer and accepting it can you influence the problem. Just to influence! Don't look at it differently.

TEST: WHY OR WHY

Divide the sheet into three columns and three rows.

Write 3 unpleasant situations in the first column that have happened to you lately.

In the second column write why they happened.

In the third column, write WHY did they happen? How did these situations benefit you?

Be as true to yourself as possible. When you find the “why” answer, you will experience a sense of insight and relief. But don't you dare blame yourself for this answer!

Mindfulness is responsibility without guilt.

Mindfulness - responsibility without guilt

When a person has responsibility for how his life develops, when he understands that every day he lives is the result of his desires, he must learn to protect himself from feelings of guilt.

Society tells us that we should be responsible for what is in our lives, but at the same time, responsibility can be associated with a sense of guilt for what happened (or what is happening).

The most important difference in my methodology is that I will strictly forbid you to blame yourself. Remember, I wrote that money is a universal matter on which we shift the responsibility?

Why do you think? That's right, don't blame yourself.

It is easier for us to say that money is to blame (or rather, their absence, real or imaginary). Moreover, if we do not want big money, it certainly seems to us that this is not normal. We do not think that we have our own reasons for this. We always have reasons.

“I don’t have money because I can’t set up the sales department in any way, or the boss doesn’t want to raise it, or even because I spend little time on work, or vice versa, I spend all the time, there is no time to earn money.”

These excuses are very convenient, first of all, for themselves, because they relieve a person of guilt.

But guilt must be consciously removed from oneself. You have no reason to blame yourself for any of your subconscious desires.

The main thing to understand this formula: responsibility without guilt. Most of the psychological and religious practices push us to blame. All those institutions where we are told that we need to ask for forgiveness from ourselves, from everyone, we need to erase negative attitudes and fears from ourselves, we need to pray for forgiveness from our parents - what do they want from us?

They want to prove to us that we are at fault. In fact, it doesn't exist. Why isn't she? Our life is the choice of our own subconscious. The subconscious, by definition, cannot do wrong. It cannot want the wrong things. It's just that your subconscious mind has other criteria.

That's what mindfulness is - it's responsibility without guilt.

Why no guilt? Because in fact a person immediately, as soon as he recognizes his attitude, has a feeling: “Well, why am I such a fool? Why did I think the rich were bad?"

The feeling of guilt for one's own wealth works for almost all Russian people. When you see what was thought in terms of consciousness

somehow wrong, you can at one point say: “How do I feel about money like that? It's terrible! ".

Especially if you were told: “Money is good. Money is good." Now I will tell you: "Money is good." Or we will start doing auto-training, and we will all repeat: “Money is good. Money is wonderful." What will it eventually lead to? And this will lead to the fact that your guilt will grow exponentially.

And why is it bad? Because by blaming yourself and your actions, you reject and deny yourself. You say that it is impossible to be like this and... you lose the ability to control reality.

Our individual qualities, why do we need them?

In each of us there are traits that can be characterized as human individuality. This is what distinguishes us from others. Very often we do not accept these qualities in ourselves.

For example, some men do not accept weakness in themselves. One young man whom I worked with in my own way saw the image of his weakness in this way: he is the leader of the army, but at the same time he is weak, because he does not want to put himself at risk by fighting the enemy.

When we started working on the methodology, it turned out that his weakness

this is precisely his strength, because he does not need to take part in a physical battle with the enemy. If he observes the progress of the battle, remaining on the top of the mountain, then he will lead his army much more effectively than if he, as a simple soldier, is in the thick of the battle. In the latter case, the whole army would have suffered, and the young man himself would have been a weak leader.

Sometimes we reject or condemn our individual qualities (or our entire personality) because we see them in a certain negative way. These are attitudes about ourselves. If we change these attitudes, this or that quality of our character is accepted by us by itself and becomes our strength. We stop paying attention to it, but it remains in us. And he begins to help us, because now we recognize him.

When analyzing one's own qualities, one's own individual traits, it is very important to take into account such an aspect as duality - the duality of human nature.

Strength at a certain moment and under certain circumstances can turn out to be weakness and vice versa. Moreover, only a truly weak person can become truly strong. Only a truly evil person can be truly kind. And only a truly lazy person can be truly hardworking.

These statements may seem crazy at first glance, so I will explain them using the example of a person’s attitude to money. Only a truly greedy person can be willing to truly share. But on one condition - if a person accepts himself as he is.

Money is one of the most powerful factors in self-acceptance. If one of the dualities is not accepted, then an inflamed state occurs when a person is both greedy and ready to share, but at the same time he hates one of these extremes in himself. If he hates greed in himself, then he sees its manifestations in all his actions and thoughts, if he hates altruism in himself, then again he sees it in absolutely everything.

The same is true with the concepts of “strength” and “weakness”. A person who hates himself for his own weakness does not understand that he needs it as much as he needs strength. That it is very important to allow yourself to be weak, because this weakness is part of strength, and in no way contradicts strength.

For example, the most beautiful women world - in fact, the ugliest. Why? Because they are different from others. Their appearance is characterized by certain individual features, which for some may seem ugly or even ugly.

Take Angelina Jolie. It is difficult to consider her an impeccable beauty, but her personality arouses the admiration of men and the envy of women. Why is this happening? Because she understands the principle of duality and allows herself to be the way we know her.

If you have ever read her biography, you probably know that there was a very long period in her life when she considered herself very ugly.

Vera Brezhneva, Marilyn Monroe .... Each of them at some point considered herself worse than ever. But having accepted for themselves their individuality, they realized that this is their beauty.

These things you need to learn to understand. If you carefully listen to yourself and see your weakness, stupidity, lack of culture or inability to do something, keep in mind that you have diagnosed your own inflamed condition, you have found that thing that you still have not accepted in yourself.

Why is it important to accept EVERYTHING in yourself, and most importantly HOW?

Love yourself, accept yourself for who you are. We hear this message often. But few people know how to do it. "How to do it?" - that's the question.

Why do I touch on this aspect in a book on money? Because a person’s rejection of his own qualities directly affects his attitude towards money.

Example. Most recently, I conducted a psychological training with one young man. In the course of the training, it became clear to us (both to him and to me) that if he suddenly had as much money as he wanted, all of humanity would perish. This young man has power, but he himself is afraid of it, and spends the resource of his subconscious to suppress this power.

You ask, does it really have such power? Can she destroy? The most interesting thing is that it really can. As long as a person does not realize and accept it, it (this attitude) will be put into practice. This man is doomed to have no money because he forbade himself to have it. Moreover, he considers money dangerous not only for himself, but also for others.

If money is subconsciously not connected with your individual qualities, then indeed, this will not affect the financial situation. But this is in theory, but in practice everything looks different - your attitude to money always depends on your individual traits.

There is a clear technique on how to accept certain qualities in yourself so that they stop bothering you. How to do this is described in the PRACTICE section. And now I suggest you take a short test, during which you will have to identify those qualities in yourself that are worth working on.

TEST: What qualities do you not accept in yourself

You may have already taken this test. But this does not mean that this will make it less effective.

Please take a piece of paper and write down the names of 3 people you like and the names of 3 people that annoy you.

Opposite the names, write what quality appeals to you in this person. And on the contrary, those who do not like what quality annoys you in them.

It must be real people. Perhaps people you don't know, but the quality should belong to the person, not be divorced from the personality.

Write very quickly, set a timer, the whole exercise should take you no more than 5 minutes.

Have you written? Wonderful. Do you like the first three people you wrote very much? You probably think that they have some super qualities? Attention, answer: these qualities are part of you, they are part of your personality.

But what is really unpleasant is that those negative qualities that annoy you are also in you. These are precisely those parts of your individuality that you stubbornly deny in yourself. It is with them that we have to work in order to put a lot of money into your life.

Please note that most often the qualities that impress us and repel us are essentially opposite.

Find these opposite qualities in your answers.

For example, the same person can write that he is annoyed by his sister's apathy, that she does not want anything, does not strive for anything.

At the same time, he really likes the purposefulness of his friend. This is called duality. I will tell about it further. But at this stage, just match your qualities, find your dualities.

Lazy, loser, greedy?

Dear and beloved by me, Petr Osipov and Mikhail Dashkiev, they repeat to everyone in the Business Youth community that we must spend more money on themselves, that is, they must increase the level of their consumption.

They have a task. The student should go and buy for himself any very expensive thing that he could never afford in his life.

One more task. The student must learn to delegate. This task was required to be completed by all coaching participants. We, for example, hired an employee, while not knowing how we will pay him at the end of the month. But since Petya and Misha said so, we did so.

Thank God, by that time everything was already in order in our “head”, and our new employee paid for itself in the same month. He himself earned money for us so that we could pay his salary. But trust me, this is not the case for everyone. But learning to delegate is a must.

What is CHSM? Who knows what this terrible thing is? This is an abbreviation, which can be deciphered as follows: "Feel like an asshole." You must feel like an asshole. Thank God, such

Business Youth has no credits, but, nevertheless, it is extremely important to feel like an asshole.

What is it? What are they, Petya and Misha, teaching us? Why don't we listen to them most of the time? After all, the percentage of people who exactly fulfill the tasks of the speakers is extremely small. Accordingly, the number of people who have achieved certain results due to this is also small.

What is it that turns out? Natural greed does not allow us to spend money, and natural laziness does not allow us to delegate. And CSM is a failure. Which of you consider yourself lazy? I congratulate you all, you all have this unacceptable quality. That is, you blame yourself for this quality, you reject it in yourself. You consider yourself lazy. And you think it's bad.

I also consider myself lazy, but I don't think that's a bad thing. Because at a certain moment I realized that laziness is one of the most important qualities of a businessman. Because it is thanks to laziness that a businessman creates his own business.

A real businessman is really too lazy to work. But that doesn't mean he doesn't do anything. Most often, businessmen do more than their employees, especially in the early stages of establishing and developing a business.

Neither diligence nor laziness is in any way connected with the result. But, nevertheless, a person who scolds laziness in himself will never start delegating. And to delegate is growth. Alone, no one has yet been able to create his own business.

If you don't start delegating, then your business will never grow. One person cannot do as much as ten people can do, even if ten do poorly and you alone do well. Alone you can not do the work more efficiently and better than ten.

We all do not accept the world, and by not accepting the world, we deprive ourselves of a lot, because we do not understand why we need it. We don't consider it our strength, we consider it our weakness. This worldview must be worked out if you, of course, want money.

The more a person accepts in himself such a quality as laziness, the richer he is. There is a direct relationship between wealth and laziness. Remember? Laziness is the engine of progress.

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